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THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 08:26 AM
If you haven't taken this test for husbands, wives and/or singles yet to learn about your primary and other love languages, you can do so at Dr. Gary Chapman's website for The Five Love Languages.
Here are all of my answers to the 30 dual choice questions asked of husbands in the test for the guys (answered as a former and future husband, of course, with a few " ... AND BAREFOOT THEN SOME!!!" emphasized additions!!!) and my test score results after taking this test:
1) I LOVE MY WIFE'S HUGS!!! (Physical Touch)
2) I LIKE TO BE ALONE WITH MY WIFE. (Quality Time)
3) I ENJOY LONG TRIPS WITH MY WIFE. (Quality Time)
4) I LIKE IT WHEN MY WIFE TOUCHES ME!!! ( ... and BAREFOOT THEN SOME!!!) (Physical Touch)
5) I FEEL LOVED WHEN MY WIFE PUTS HER ARMS AROUND ME!!! (Physical Touch)
6) I LIKE GOING MOST ANYWHERE WITH MY WIFE. (Quality Time)
7) I LOVE TO HEAR MY WIFE SAY SHE LOVES ME!!! (Words of Affirmation)
8) I LIKE MY WIFE TO SIT CLOSE TO ME!!! (Physical Touch)
9) SPENDING TIME WITH MY WIFE MAKES ME HAPPY!!! (Quality Time)
10) WHEN MY WIFE COOKS A MEAL FOR ME, I KNOW THAT SHE LOVES ME. (Acts of Service)
11) NO MATTER WHAT WE DO, I LOVE DOING THINGS WITH MY WIFE!!! (Quality Time)
12) I LOVE TO HUG MY WIFE!!! (Physical Touch)
13) MY WIFE'S PRAISE MEANS A LOT TO ME. (Words of Affirmation)
14) I LOVE IT WHEN MY WIFE RUBS MY BACK!!! (Physical Touch)
15) MY WIFE'S REACTIONS
TO MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS ARE SO ENCOURAGING. (Words of Affirmation)
16) I NEVER GET TIRED OF MY WIFE'S KISSES!!! ( ... and BAREFOOT THEN SOME!!!) (Physical Touch)
17) I STILL GET EXCITED WHEN OPENING A GIFT FROM MY WIFE!!! (Receiving Gifts)
18) I LOVE THAT MY WIFE LISTENS TO MY IDEAS
AND DOESN'T RUSH TO JUDGE OR CRITISIZE!!! (Quality Time)
19) I CAN'T HELP BUT TOUCH MY WIFE WHEN SHE'S CLOSE BY!!! (Physical Touch)
20) I'M SOMETIMES AMAZED BY HOW THOUGHTFUL MY WIFE'S GIFTS TO ME ARE. (Receiving Gifts)
21) I LOVE HAVING MY WIFE'S UNDIVIDED ATTENTION!!! (Quality Time)
22) I NEVER GET TIRED OF HEARING MY WIFE
TELL ME THAT I AM IMPORTANT TO HER!!! (Words of Affirmation)
23) MY WIFE LETS ME KNOW SHE LOVES ME BY GIVING ME GIFTS. (Receiving Gifts)
24) MY WIFE DOESN'T INTERRUPT ME WHEN I'M TALKING AND I LIKE THAT. (Quality Time)
25) IT DOESN'T MATTER WHERE WE GO,
I JUST LIKE GOING PLACES WITH MY WIFE!!! (Quality Time)
26) I LOVE HAVING SEX WITH MY WIFE!!!
( ... AND BAREFOOT THEN SOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) (Physical Touch)
27) I LOVE TO WATCH MOVIES WITH MY WIFE!!! (Quality Time)
28) I JUST CAN'T KEEP MY HANDS OFF MY WIFE!!!
( ... AND BAREFOOT THEN SOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) (Physical Touch)
29) IT MAKES ME FEEL REALLY GOOD
WHEN MY WIFE TELLS ME SHE APPRECIATES ME!!! (Words of Affirmation)
30) I LOVE HUGGING AND KISSING MY WIFE
AFTER WE'VE BEEN APART FOR A WHILE!!! ( ... and BAREFOOT THEN SOME!!!) (Physical Touch)
ADDING UP THE SCORES FOR THESE ANSWERS GAVE THESE RESULTS:
MY PRIMARY LOVE LANGUAGE IS: PHYSICAL TOUCH (11 points)
MY SECONDARY LOVE LANGUAGE IS: QUALITY TIME (10 points)
THE OTHER LOVE LANGUAGES IN ORDER OF IMPORTANCE TO ME:
3) WORDS OF AFFIRMATION (5 points)
4) RECEIVING GIFTS (3 points)
5) ACTS OF SERVICE (1 point)
Love to all of you as your brother in Christ,
Steve
My encouraging, comforting "life verse":
"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord; plans to prosper you and not to harm you, to give you hope and a future." (Jeremiah 29:11)
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 11:10 AM
I took the assessment for singles. My responses are a bit different than what they were the last time I took this (over the summer?).
MY INDIVIDUAL RESPONSES:
1. I like to be hugged.
2. I like to spend one-to-one time with a person who is special to me.
3. I like leisurely visits with friends and loved ones.
4. I feel loved when people touch me.
5. I feel loved when someone I love or admire puts his or her arm around me.
6. I like to high-five or hold hands.
7. I feel loved when people affirm me.
8. I like to sit close to people whom I enjoy being around.
9. I like to spend time with friends and loved ones.
10. Words of acceptance are important to me.
11. I like it when kind words are spoken to me.
12. Hugs make me feel connected and valued.
13. I value praise and try to avoid criticism.
14. I feel closer to friends and loved ones when they touch me often.
15. I know people love me when they do things for me that they don�t enjoy doing.
16. I like it when people listen to me and show genuine interest in what I am saying.
17. I feel loved when friends and loved ones help me with jobs or projects.
18. I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings.
19. I feel secure when a special person is touching me.
20. I like receiving gifts that special people make for me.
21. I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention.
22. I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with meaningful words.
23. I feel loved when a person helps with my chores.
24. I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn�t interrupt me.
25. I like knowing loved ones are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks.
26. I enjoy kissing or being kissed by people with whom I am close.
27. I like to be told that I am appreciated.
28. I feel good when a friend or loved one touches me.
29. I feel loved when I am told how much I am appreciated.
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 11:14 AM
Clarification on gifts: I enjoy gifts; they just don't especially express "love" to me. It seems like people just give gifts out of this sense of obligation sometimes and don't really put much thought into the gift.
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 11:31 AM
HA! I DO enjoy gifts when the person has genuinely put thought, emotion, and effort into it. If they just randomly grabbed something off the shelf so that that they can check me off their list and end up picking up something so inappropriate that I just end up having to make a run to Goodwill after the holidays, then it's just irritating for me and I almost feel insulted by it. I have a December birthday too... So, the last week of December is always spent figuring out how to dispose of 90% of the gifts I received... Gifts always remind me of just how much people don't understand me and get me. In that sense, they just make me feel more alone.
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 04:41 PM
My answers:
1. I like to be hugged
2. I like to spend one-to-one time with a person who is special to me
3. I like leisurely visits with friends and love ones
4. I feel loved when people touch me
5. I feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I love or admire
6. I like to go places with friends and loved ones
7. I feel loved when people affirm me
8. I like to sit close to people whom I enjoy being around
9. I like to spend time with friends and loved ones
10. Words of acceptance are important to me
11. I like being together and doing things with friends and loved ones
12. Hugs make me feel connected and valued
13. I value praise and try to avoid criticism
14. I feel close to someone when we are talking or doing something together
15. I know people love me when they do things for me that they don't enjoy doing
16. I like it when people listen to me and show genuine interest in what I am saying
17. I feel loved when friends and loved ones help me with jobs or projects
18. I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings
19. I feel secure when a special person is touching me
20. I appreciate the many things that special people do for me
21. I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention
22. I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with meaningful words
23. I know a person is thinking of me when he or she gives me a gift
24. I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn't interrupt me
25. I enjoy extended trips with someone who is special to me
26. Receiving a gift given for no special reason excites me
27. I like for a person to look at me when we are talking
28. I feel good when a friend or loved one touches me
29. I feel loved when I am told how much I am appreciated
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 07:23 PM
I've taken this test before. I don't remember my scores, but my languages are quality time and physical touch.
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 12 Dec, 2010 10:45 PM
I took it a long time ago during my marriage and it probably has changed. I don't think it is all inclusive for everyone, but maybe a good place to start.
Anyway, I was high in words of affirmation, physical touch and quality time.
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
Posted : 13 Dec, 2010 01:53 AM
Thanks for your responses so far, everyone!!! Isn't it BAREFOOT GREAT to be able to freely share insights into each other like these as loving brothers and sisters in Christ?!!! :yay::yay::yay::hearts::hearts::hearts:
THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES TEST: What were your 30 answers in taking this test and what did the test score results show as your primary love language and the love languages next in order of importance?
