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Posted : 12 Mar, 2011 08:50 PM

I go to a small church and own a small business. I don't meet any girls my age. Where do you meet girls that don't smoke or drink. I believe clubs/bars are wrong etc. So, where do I find single females to be friends with? Thank you for your advice...and ps...I'm not into athletics.:) Thank you again, Flatlander

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Posted : 12 Mar, 2011 10:23 PM

Are you interested in approaching women first almost at random, or interested in slowly getting to know them through activities?



If you have the time to put into it, you can check out like local Ads for activity clubs, maybe see if your church or another one in the area is involved in activities, like community events.



You're more likely to find someone who is Christian that way - through church activities, or you could post an ad in the area for friends.



You can meet girls in the book stores, or libraries or places like that, and just kind of approach them and talk with them.



Just some suggestions, I really hope that helps



You could also pray before you get out to go look for people, the Lord will be in the details.

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Posted : 12 Mar, 2011 10:46 PM

Different organizations might help. By volunteering or working with some groups, you might have a chance to meet someone. Thoughts that pop to mind include the Masonic family, Boy Scouts, the food bank, meals on wheels, and such like that.

You never know what God has in mind. Trust and obey. :)

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Posted : 12 Mar, 2011 11:39 PM

grocery store, laundromat, library, dog park. God works in mysterious ways!

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Posted : 13 Mar, 2011 07:04 AM

Do you have a Christian bookstore or a bookstore with a Christian section you could go hang out in? It's easy to meet girls there because you can just start chatting about books. If there's a coffee shop in the bookstore, it's super easy to just say, "Hey, I was about to go grab some coffee. You seem pretty interesting. Want to join me?"

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Posted : 13 Mar, 2011 03:19 PM

Get your mind off the girls and ponder on the Lord.



I would think if you went door to door witnessing, before long a guy like you would have more girls than he would know what to do with!

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Posted : 13 Mar, 2011 04:44 PM

Have you tried that cdff website? They say it works! :goofball: church events (esp the attended by more than one church) is one of the best way to meet new Christian friends for sure.

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Posted : 13 Mar, 2011 06:48 PM

Hey um FL how are you? i'll post you on this later,just asking for your advice in the "Ask A Guy" Section".

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Posted : 14 Mar, 2011 12:15 PM

Let see..um... Aha! How about car racing? More girls love that more than guys nowadays. The supermarket (strange,but true they're A LOT in there as Chevy mentioned grocery stores as well),A Christian book store, A department store.But to me,since you're not sure,it's best to visit various churches evry once in a while,i can tell ya,they're so many wonderful Christian women who goes to church,even though it may not appear so in these modern times.

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