Author	Thread: Quarrelsome Women
Admin	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 19 Mar, 2011 01:04 PM Currently there is a woman on the forums that brings back memories of my last girl friend. My last girl friend was a sweet gal, somewhat younger. We got along very well at first as I made her the most important thing in my life after God. However as time went on I began to realize she didn't do the same for me. It began to irritate me until I finally quit her. She came back apologetic and wanting to try again, I agreed. Her new behavior lasted about 24 hours. I stuck it out and began to notice that no matter what I said, she would disagree. So I looked for stuff she would agree with, could find nothing. I even tried compliments like you look nice today, to which she would reply "Oh, my hair didn't come out right today". I became so aware of it I could not even have a enjoyable conversation with her. Even to go to the movies, it became a chore to pick one to see. 9 times out of ten I really didn't care, just as long as we were doing something together, but the one time I knew what I wanted to see she would diagree, so I said "forget it then, I would rather not go". Her and her friend took horseback riding lessons from me. Her friend was fun to give lessons to, but as I tried my hardest to give her a lesson in such a way where she wouldn't argue, I never suceeded. I even noticed that when we went somewhere and happened to have 2 vehicles if she left first I would follow her, but if I left first she would never follow but pick a different route and try to beat me there. *sigh* I could go on, but that paints a good enough picture to get the idea. So what do you think? Why are modern women like this? If they are all like this I agree with the Bible, 'it is better to live on a roof top or in the desert than with a quarrelsome woman' Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 19 Mar, 2011 06:42 PM there are so many things that are going on in that paragraph...but bottom line, it's called BAGGAGE- and we all have it until we deliberately focus on getting rid of it. Your a leader twosp, it's her bad that she didnt recognize it and allow herself to appreciate it... Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 19 Mar, 2011 08:21 PM Jennifer's right, TS. I don't think all women are like that, but many are. You can't live with 'em and can't live without 'em. What's a man to do? ? Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 19 Mar, 2011 09:16 PM Two, what did she say when you told her that her constant disagreeing was driving you batty? Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 12:19 AM She said "that's just how I am". To which I said "you're not that way with everyone, just me" she replied. " I don't know why, but that's how I am" Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 08:56 AM At which point, you said, "Well figure out how to change or I'm gone," right? Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 09:15 AM Tulip, I didn't say that, but that's what happened. The reason I didn't say it was because of the tone she used when she said "that's just how I am". It was a tone that said 'I was to just accept it or deal with it, cause she has no intention of changing'. That's when I decided I would be happier even alone than with her. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 10:00 AM Well maybe she found someone just as quarrelsome as she is, and they're living happily ever after now. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 12:36 PM Funny thing is; there is a guy who is head over heels in love with her. I thought they would make a great match, I asked her about him, to which she replied "I don't like him, he agrees with everything I say, he has no opinion of his own" Honest, I'm not making this stuff up...lol! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 01:29 PM I don't think anybody's actually happy for very long with someone who always agrees and has no opinions. When she finds that one special man who is more quarrelsome than she is though, stand back. A firestorm is guaranteed to break out. Post Reply
View Profile History	Quarrelsome Women Posted : 20 Mar, 2011 07:37 PM Define modern women, please. Post Reply

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