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Admin	problem Posted : 6 Apr, 2010 02:33 PM I received a wedding invitation to my exwives son's wedding. I am uncertain weather I should go. The boy and his fiancee plotted to end my marriage and did things to offend me. it was done to my face.I have forgiven them and have moved on.I just wish to get on with my life. Uncertain what I should do.The wedding is on April 17th so I have time to think about it.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	problem Posted : 9 Apr, 2010 11:54 AM also, if the boot doesn't fit you don't have to be the center of attention like arch :goofball:. nothing wrong with just showing up and being yourself. Post Reply
trubeliever70 View Profile History	problem Posted : 9 Apr, 2010 08:10 PM I just dont think i would go, in my mind i would be thinking they sent it for spite so theres now way. I must not be as good as the rest of u.......:laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	problem Posted : 9 Apr, 2010 08:26 PM well, if i may, my take on that is whether they sent it out of spite or not is a non-issue because they don't determine how you feel about you. you do. Post Reply
View Profile History	problem Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 08:22 AM You have got to get a new girlfriend quick and go. Post Reply
trubeliever70 View Profile History	problem Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 01:51 PM no someone else does not make a diff how i feel about me but i know me pretty well and i dont think i would go it just might end bad, now i didnt say that is the right attitude and the Lord works on me daily and i have come a long way from where i used to be but being in the same room with them....nope wouldnt happen. I do however like selinas idea, that i would do course there again that would be the wrong attitude, i would have to do it.....:devil: Post Reply
gracegrace View Profile History	problem Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 02:14 PM I agree with everything Remp25 said. I personally would go. It is one very important day for both the bride and groom. They and your ex will remember the day for the rest of their lives. I just feel they would probably be happy to see you otherwise they would not have sent the invitation for such an important day. They want to share the event with you. It is special and an honor that they included you on the invitation list. I probably would go to the wedding but skip the reception, unless it was a sit down dinner. :eat: Then I would enjoy the meal and the company of other people there you probably know. I have been to a couple events such as this where the ex came and the couple wanted them there and everything went well. Go, be blessed and be a blessing! Post Reply
gracegrace View Profile History	problem Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 02:30 PM Also...unless the invitation said you "and a guest", don't take a date. That might be bad. Post Reply
View Profile History	problem Posted : 11 Apr, 2010 04:49 PM Thank you all very much,Dennis Post Reply
Dahlee View Profile History	problem Posted : 14 Apr, 2010 08:55 PM Dennis, If I were you, I will go. It is an opportunity to show to them that you forget everything that happened before (even you have not yet forget it ) . Your ex-wife's son a nd his fiancee wont ask your presence to the wedding if they dont want you to be there. Yeah I agree with some of thsoe who wrote their ideas about your situation. Have fun, it is nice to see thsoe people whom you once enjoyed life with. God will lift those who humbled themselves. And besides, Jesus wants us to love even our enemies Do good to them, as Jesus required us to do. Give them the best gift that you know you can give. For sure they will feel ashmed of what they have done to you because they will feel you still lvoe them inspite of what they have done to you . Let Jesus shine in your life in this situation !!!! It is hard but, it is what it takes to love.We really have to sacrifice and forget ourselves. If you can love your enemies because you are a christian, then the more you should go and show them that you still love them, the love that only Jesus gave us because we know how to forgive and forget just like what Jesus said, He wont remember our sins anymore. Do the same. Forget their sins that they have done to you. I am sure, very very sure , you will feel great after you have done that .Dont worry you will have my prayers for that. God bless you with happines on that wedding . God is good all the time !!! Post Reply
View Profile History	problem Posted : 24 Apr, 2010 07:10 PM So Dennis - Did you go to the wedding or stay home? Enquiring minds want to know. :glow: Post Reply

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