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Admin	Backing Away Posted : 20 Apr, 2010 09:14 PM What do you do when the girl you're interested in isn't interested in you (or at least when you think so but aren't completely sure)? how do you give up hope and detatch after getting attatched when you don't want to? Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 21 Apr, 2010 12:06 PM Crying is a normal human response to an emotional situation! I think it's perfectly okay for guys to cry!!! Crying is such a good release and can feel so healing =) Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 21 Apr, 2010 04:41 PM That may be true for girls, but grown men don't have tear ducts, or even emotions. Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 21 Apr, 2010 05:50 PM I'm in a similar situation. Still waiting to know what to do, exactly. As for gettingn over it..... well, I cry sometimes. Ok, so maybe that is not an option for a man. I also allow myself to grieve. Sometimes it will take a day, sometimes two. It doesn't matter how long. I allow myself that time. When it starts to get better I pray for courage, and try again. And eventually I can thank God for protecting me, and for letting me grow and learn from yet another experience. The important thing is to keep moving forward and growing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 22 Apr, 2010 09:18 AM Tulip are you joking when you said... "That may be true for girls, but grown men don't have tear ducts, or even emotions."? nyanda:purpleangel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 22 Apr, 2010 02:37 PM Im crying right now!:excited::goofball::bouncy: Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 22 Apr, 2010 06:19 PM Steve I believe you.Dennis :nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 25 Apr, 2010 11:14 PM Well they say "actions speak louder than words" and "honesty is the best policy". But honesty can cut pretty deep and it's easy to be afraid of saying what's on your mind when you think you could get hurt in the process. I'm with Pixy on this one. I'd cry. I'm not afraid to admit I cry and it certainly does not make me any less of a man. I can't help it. I'm a hapless romantic!! Sob!! Then I'd probably find a friend to "share my feelings" with. :buddies: Thunder :laugh: Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 26 Apr, 2010 08:10 AM In front of her?? I don't think so...I might cry a tiny bit...but in private. I wouldn't want to make her feel bad. If she doesn't want to be with me, or if I can't make her happier than someone else can...I wouldn't want her to be "stuck" with me, and I wouldn't want her to feel like she just crushed someones heart/dreams. That wouldn't be cool. :peace::peace: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 26 Apr, 2010 09:21 AM I hear ya Mark. When my last relationship ended, I held it together until I'd left his house. I didn't want him to change his mind just because he felt terrible for upsetting me. Once I was out of his sight, though, I allowed myself to shed a few tears for what might have been. Then I blew my nose and gathered my thoughts, and decided to move on. I'm still not "over it" but at least I'm not quite as much of a mess as I was the first couple days! Post Reply
View Profile History	Backing Away Posted : 26 Apr, 2010 04:33 PM My Daddy taught me..." A Man is not a Man until he crys as a Man"...an he finished by sayin..." And Jesus wept"...xo Post Reply

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