Author	Thread: Advice for everyone that people should consider
MoreHimLessMe View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 20 Jan, 2013 11:07 PM Ladies, If I asked 20 of you to go into an auditorium with 1000 men, and asked each of you to pick the guy that you feel is the most attractive, what are the odds you would pick the same guy? Next to none... Guys, If I asked 20 of you to go into an auditorium with 1000 women, and asked each of you to pick the lady that you feel is the most attractive, what are the odds you would pick the same lady? Next to none... What does this mean then? It means that beauty has no 'one' definition. Everyone has their own definition of beauty. That old famous quote "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" could not be moire true. If beauty has no 'one' definition, why do we try to make one of our it? Everyone has completely different views on what is attractive to them, to don't try and be someone your not, because then someone that may like you for who you are will come by, think your someone else, and totally write you off...all because you tried to define beauty. Newsflash for all the ladies? Look in the mirror...There's a guy out there who's going to think that your the most stunning girl in the entire world and treat you like a princess. Don't settle for anything less because that is what you deserve. No matter what you have dealt with in the past doesn't mean it is always going to be the case. A guy named Jesus died on the cross for you and thinks you are the most beautiful thing ever. Be yourself and someone else will think the same thing as well. Newsflash for all the guys? Look in the mirror....There's a lady out there who's going to think that your the cutest guy on this planet. So how bout we let that lady/guy find you, and just be yourself? Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 21 Jan, 2013 02:34 AM Thank you so much for this...very encouraging. I was about to give up coz i feel i have been waiting for too long and no one is coming along.Since i joined this site i haven't met someone serious,the ones i have met they write only to find they have been banned the next day.I send winks,messages but i think no one thinks i'm good enough,for reasons that i don't know. I had started thinking i'm not good enough but now i feel encouraged and revived. Thank you God bless you. Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 25 Jan, 2013 11:28 PM I am on the same page as you. It is very rare that people are judged by there words and actions, and not by the way they look. Many people forget to look deeper than the skin. Have you ever seen older couple that looked 'hot" or "sexy". No you see older couple that love each other with all the wrinkles and miles in their skin. Thank you for sharing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 3 Feb, 2013 11:42 AM Lukia, I understand exactly how you feel. I have had the same experience. Either the men are banned, you "talk" a few times and never hear from them again, or you date a few times and start getting "comfortable" and let your guard down and then they either tell you they are seeing someone else and have to see where it goes, or they just never contact you again. Extremely frustrating!! Anyone out there have any advice? Post Reply
View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 5 Feb, 2013 03:48 AM Yes, My advice is to thank God for the season you are in and seek His guidence while you are here. If you compare your life to many of the greats of the bible you might find your trials pale in comparison. You will find that life has its dry seasons where you wounder around not exactly knowing when you will get to your destination. Remember this life is only our preperation for eternity and you are exactly where God wants you. Post Reply
okiekansas777 View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 6 Feb, 2013 05:10 AM I notice also even though this is a Christian website it has ads of these women that are most likely models posing for dates and then there are women like me that don't measure up to that since I am a curvy, plump woman. Also many scammers on this site and we need to be careful to not be flattered by them. Post Reply
okiekansas777 View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 6 Feb, 2013 05:12 AM I notice also even though this is a Christian website it has ads of these women that are most likely models posing for dates and then there are women like me that don't measure up to that since I am a curvy, plump woman. Also many scammers on this site and we need to be careful to not be flattered by them. Post Reply
YourSong View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 22 Feb, 2013 04:20 AM Thank you for this advice. It is very encouraging. I believe there is always one Eve out from one Adam, perfect and fitted for one another while doing the purpose of God here on earth. God bless us. Post Reply
MoreHimLessMe View Profile History	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 26 Dec, 2013 12:57 AM Bringing this back to the top! :) Post Reply