Author	Thread: God DOES NOT hate divorce
Dom_64 View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 27 Oct, 2024 12:52 PM To Which Situation Did God Say, "I Hate Putting Away (Divorce)?" We have heard this Scripture: “the Lord God of Israel says that HE HATES DIVORCE” (Malachi 2:16). This is almost always quoted as if God hates all divorces in general. But that’s just not true. We have previously read from the Bible books of Ezra, Nehemiah, Jeremiah, Deuteronomy and 1Corinthians that God is not against divorce. Then why all the confusion concerning why God said that “He hates divorce?” The reason for the confusion is because there are TWO “kinds” of marriages and TWO “divorces” being mentioned in the Malachi 2:11-16 passage. The “divorces” were not official divorces; they didn’t need to be. They were already previously married and “unofficially” married again. The Hebrew word shalach means “putting away”― a separation, as correctly translated in most Bibles. However, the King James and a number of newer versions have incorrectly translated shalach as to mean: divorce. It never meant divorce and it doesn’t mean divorce. The word was most likely translated as “divorce” to fit what was taught in the church. Shalach is just a common word used throughout the Old Testament which means to: go, separate or to send. That’s it! So why did God angrily say that He “…hated putting away [a separation]?” “…Because you have not kept My ways [concerning marriage, divorce and remarriage] but have SHOWN PARTIALITY IN THE LAW” (Malachi 2:9). The Law specifically stated that when a man got a divorce from his wife that he was to write “…her a CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE, put it in her hand, AND [shalach] send her out [put her away]…” (Deuteronomy 24:1). God also commanded them not to marry anyone who did not serve him ― who served a foreign god (See Nehemiah 13:25-30). Instead, men separated from their wives without ever giving them a Certificate of Divorce and then illegally married someone else. This is why the Lord said that they were still “their wife by covenant.” The marriage covenant had never been dissolved by the Divorce Certificate. “The Lord’s holy institution which He loves...the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth ...[and] SHE [STILL] IS YOUR COMPANION AND YOUR WIFE BY COVENANT. For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce [shalach], [separating without a Certificate of Divorce].... He has [illegally] married the daughter of a foreign god. May the Lord cut off ...the man who does this being awake and aware” (Malachi 2:11,12a,14b,c,16a). Because these men had remarried illegally ― separated from their wives without giving them a Certificate of Divorce, they were in adultery as Jesus stated: “Furthermore it has been said, “Whoever PUTS AWAY [separates from {apoluo}] his wife, LET HIM GIVE HER A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE. But I say to you that whoever PUTS AWAY [separates and remarries without being divorced from] his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery: and whoever marries a woman who is PUT AWAY [separated without being divorced {apoluo}] commits adultery” (Matthew 5:31-32). (The Lord never forgot about the Malachi incident when He came to earth to redeem lost man). The Old Testament Hebrew word shalach and the New Testament Greek word apoluo are equivalent which will be discussed later. Because these disobedient men still had “un-divorced” wives, the Lord did not command them to give their illegal wives a Certificate of Divorce, rather, they simply had to “separate, put them away, [shalach].” SO DID GOD HATE DIVORCE? NO! RATHER, GOD HATED THAT THE HUSBANDS WERE SEPARATING FROM THEIR WIVES WITHOUT GIVING THEM A CERTIFICATE OF DIVORCE WHICH WOULD ENABLE THEM TO GET REMARRIED. THIS IS WHAT GOD HATES! The men of Israel were SEPARATING from their wives for self-gratifying reasons. God Himself was a “witness” at their original marriage ceremony which was still in effect. The marriage covenant was never dissolved by a Certificate of Divorce. The men remarried outside their own culture (race) and tribe. God considered the children they bore unholy because of the mixed marriages bringing curses into their families (See Ezra 9:1,2, Nehemiah 13:26-30). Because of these unauthorized marriages, the Word of God came to Ezra and Nehemiah to have the men and women of Israel who had done this thing, to separate from their spouse and even from their children (See Ezra 9:1, 11-12, 10:3, Nehemiah 13:23-27). In this situation, God’s command was to “put them away, separate yourselves from them!” This was NOT the kind of marriage to which God was saying, “I hate divorce!” He was saying loudly, “Get out of these wrong marriages!” DIVORCE IS A METHOD TO SEPARATE THE ONE, AND MAKE THEM INTO TWO just as a surgeon’s knife is used to separate the cancerous flesh from the healthy flesh. Both operations are good. Divorce can be used to kill a righteous marriage, just as a surgeon’s knife can be used to kill a healthy person. Excerpt from https://www.divorcehope.com/godhatesdivorce.htm Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 1 Mar, 2026 03:16 PM I fear for your soul, ML. You have too much hatred for the Word of God. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 1 Mar, 2026 03:17 PM You want to re-write the scripture. Post Reply
Moonlight7Lady View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 8 Mar, 2026 06:12 PM You do not know Scripture or are Called to teach anyone anywhere. Seek God for your Own Soul. He knows you are Lacking. Best watch where you Post . Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 8 Mar, 2026 07:03 PM Seek help, Moonlight. God loves you though you reject his word and you reject Bible teachings. Seek help, Moonlight. There is still hope for you. I know sin desires to have you, but you must master it. Post Reply
Moonlight7Lady View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 6 Apr, 2026 04:05 PM We I notice a Abuser of Women name replying to something on my Topics I rarely read what they Post . Their Negativity and Degrading on this Dating site has a Long History. Insulting Members especially Women. Ugly Namecalling women like me. They have No Idea what the Bible Supports. I never Supported Divorce. It happens. This CDFF has many Divorced MEN on here and they are PD members. Abusers free men posting What they do is Degrade, insult and belittle Women day after day! Ignorance on a Dating site, No women wants an Ignorant man that THINKS he is a Christian . Posting biblical Ignorance constantly! Post Reply
Moonlight7Lady View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 6 Apr, 2026 04:09 PM homelesschristian Only man posting Now days that has any Wisdom to teach members bible. No one is perfect But the Abusers Attack him when he does not attack Women on what she posts. No Christian Woman wants an Verbal abuser of Women. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 6 Apr, 2026 04:13 PM homelesschristian never touches upon the subject of divorce. That is why you praise him. He does not want to offend any of you women. Especially, you! He sees what you do to every man that posts a scripture on the subject. Post Reply
Moonlight7Lady View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 6 Apr, 2026 04:14 PM Nothing out of their mouth is Wisdom coming from God and I am sure the site CDFF may soon realize what they are doing on the Forums. They have no intelligence to teach Women or Men the Bible. Men here also know that too. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 6 Apr, 2026 04:16 PM You rarely site the words of Jesus. On this matter, you would rather not site the words of Jesus at all. Nor do you want any New Testament teachings on the matter. Enjoy as many husbands as you like! It is all John 4:18 now days. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	God DOES NOT hate divorce Posted : 6 Apr, 2026 05:32 PM Certainly, there is no wisdom coming out of your mouth, Moonlight7Lady. Post Reply

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