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fearnada98

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Guys Take It Easy
Posted : 27 Dec, 2014 04:46 PM

Guys I have made many friends on this site, but one of the main complaints that I hear women on this site say is that so many men go way to fast. They want to come visit, move in, get her number etc etc. Not to mention that I have heard that many men on here are just plain vulgar. There are plenty of secular sites for that. I would just say to slow it down with these women. It is a huge turn off when you look all desperate and try to rush things!!!! Finally, if you are not a Christian, why bs these women and act like you are? They will eventually find out, so why waste one anothers time???

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myharmony

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Posted : 29 Dec, 2014 03:04 AM

Well said. Thanks for the friendly reminder.:applause:

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Posted : 29 Dec, 2014 12:04 PM

This is NOT to say you�re wrong or right, just to point out that, we men, also tend to go to from point A to point B. We do not do like a dog chasing its tail to sit down the place it was spinning.



Beside, I could say that, as you mentioned secular sites, it is disgusting the amount of impersonated profiles left THERE and also here: Not all are Christians and we�re ALL the persons we say we are so, as Jesus once said:



Mat 7:16 You will know these people because of what they do. Good things don't come from people who are bad, just as grapes don't come from thornbushes, and figs don't come from thorny weeds.



Let�s take it easy, then!



(Thanks brother) :peace:

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Posted : 6 Jan, 2015 01:36 AM

Good point and thanks for bringing it up Fearnada. As for me (just so you know gals) if I'm rushing things it's because I'm very excited and hopeful there is something to the relationship. Also some gals can rush things too, it's not like it's a one sided thing.

As for some guys here claiming to be Christians and not behaving like a good one, it's worth noting that as Christians we're not perfect but forgiven. Not all of us are moving at the same pace either. I know some people who are deeply spiritual but you'd never know it to look at their lives, as they use lots of foul language, drink heavily and live with their boyfriend. Spiritual growth doesn't happen instantly it takes place over time.

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2015 06:15 PM

Very true, this is a Christian dating website. It is a very big waste of time to find out someone does not share beliefs. That's an absolute dealbreaker. We are not supposed to be unequally yoked.

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yolanda2004

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2015 06:57 PM

I couldn't have said it better myself. Thanks for being such a gentleman and standing for righteousness! You Rock!:peace:

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Posted : 12 Jan, 2015 08:54 PM

So wonderfully I agree. I can myself agree with this truly out of experiencing similar situations with men from this site. It's a HUGE turnoff and very frustrating to experience.

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Posted : 12 Jan, 2015 08:54 PM

So wonderfully I agree. I can myself agree with this truly out of experiencing similar situations with men from this site. It's a HUGE turnoff and very frustrating to experience.

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Posted : 2 Apr, 2015 03:27 PM

Thank you for posting this! I've had people asking me to marry them, for me to move to their country and even to send them pics... so disappointing and such a turn off

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