Author	Thread: What I hate about the some of people on this site.
zimneno^ View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 24 Mar, 2016 11:52 AM First of all, I am not referring to everyone on this site. There are many people here that are true to their word. 1) Many people here are negative minded. They think that everyone is looking for a partner or whatever... they think that anyone who sends them a message looks pretty much like this: they only choose to talk to other people when they themselves look like this: 2) Many of those who state that they are looking for "anything". Aren't. When that "anything" sends a message. They won't reply... 3) Most of those who write in their description "ask me anything I'll tell you." Won't even reply. Majority of these people won't even bother to open your message. 4) Proud people: these people will wait for someone else to send them a message first. They would never bother to send anyone a message. And they would only reply to a received message if the sender is appealing. Not one of them would take a minute to think about the possibility that, the sender wants to talk about something that as nothing to do with being in a relationship. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 24 Mar, 2016 09:03 PM Oh I hear your heart my friend but...welcome to the world of "online dating"!! God's best in your endeavors. Post Reply
View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 25 Mar, 2016 04:58 PM I've only been on this site about 6 wks & already I've become somewhat jaded. It seems almost daily when I check my news feed I discover yet another member who has contacted me has been banned from the site. Because of that, I generally wait about 5 days before responding to a contact. Seriously. It's discouraging, to say the least! Post Reply
zimneno^ View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 29 Mar, 2016 08:27 AM Lucky you. atleast you get contacted. I come here almost daily, and see tumble w33d (CDFF won't let me type the original word) rolling around in my inbox.... Post Reply
Neni View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 31 Mar, 2016 10:09 AM Hi, it would be better to chatrooms here..i mean the live chats, so u can meet and talk with everyone:) Post Reply
zimneno^ View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 2 Apr, 2016 04:01 AM You know what, that's not really a bad idea. Post Reply
zimneno^ View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 7 Apr, 2016 11:13 AM I would like to add two more types of people to this list. Guys: Not all guy but most guys are dirty minded. They are looking for that yolo swag relationship. You know that meaningless relationship where these guys show off to their friends, hang out, and eventually break up, and then get and other GF so that they can make their ex jealous. None of ya'll would get this. Well girls might. I know because these are the type of guys that I have been running from (no not because the have been hitting on me. Im not gay.) Because they talk dirty, they swear, disrespect women, and do everything that makes their parents unhappy. And because I see them doing so it feels as if I too am doing all those thing. Girls: once again not all girls, but most of them. They are just extremely overly ultimately judgemental (yeah its a thing... I think). They think every guy is like the one described above. For example. I sent a message to someone because I want to know about her denomination. I had never heard of it before. And before I could have asked my question (I don't usually ask questions in the first message, my first message is a "hi") she replied saying "I am sorry but you are not my match." I was like seriously!? You are 5 years older than me. Well actually I didn't say that. I was trying to explain my purpose of messaging her in the first place. But she didn't reply. Post Reply
View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 14 Apr, 2016 05:09 AM ANYTHING!? that word should be removed. if u looking for anything then u looking for nothing.! Indeed life is a marketplace with different pple with different agendas, just know exactly what you want and go for it n be acceptable to it. pple with group pics as main pic, u r fooling urslvs and presenting a falsehood. be honest n confident with urslf n put U on ur main pic. Post Reply
zimneno^ View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 24 Apr, 2016 02:21 AM Excellent point. But there are a few people who are looking for anything. Post Reply
Lisa1144 View Profile History	What I hate about the some of people on this site. Posted : 1 May, 2016 08:27 AM Well you will find rude people everywhere, even on a Christian dating site. I think even if the person isn't your type or you theirs, manners should still be in place. If someone asks you a question in person do you ignore the person or reply? Shouldn't it be the same here {i am hoping most said reply} I just joined and I know not every man will be someone I am interested in for whatever reasons, but when I remember I am a Christian first I know my response should always be with love to other Christians. Lisa Post Reply