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Oposite Sex Friends Within An Exclusive Relationship Heading Towrards Marriage.Posted : 11 Sep, 2009 10:53 AMShould Their be boundaries where oposite sex friends are concerned, to keep the enemy from getting a foothold in a couples relationship or not? And if so what should they consist of? |
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lorirain
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Oposite Sex Friends Within An Exclusive Relationship Heading Towrards Marriage.Posted : 18 Apr, 2010 02:33 PMWell, I am torn on this subject because I am still friends with a man I used to be with when I was a drug addict. He is now a minister and married and has a beautiful daughter and even tho they live in California and me in Missouri, we are all still friends. The reason is this: he became born again while in prison and began praying for me and calling me and telling me the good news about Jesus. I was still lost in my addiction, but he didn't give up and kept praying and calling and talking until i began to feel convicted every time I would use. Finally I prayed the prayer of salvation with him over the phone, and have walked with Jesus ever since. He is still one of my spiritual advisers, and has his own church in California, and many times over the last few years I have been blessed to have him and his beautiful sweet wife help me through tough situations. My daughter and I have visited them and stayed in their house when we did, and I consider his wife one of my best friends. |
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Oposite Sex Friends Within An Exclusive Relationship Heading Towrards Marriage.Posted : 8 Jun, 2010 05:01 AMIt may be OK in your rationalizing that it is safe because he is so far away and he is a minister, and married. But life has a way of changing, and if it did could you cut the soul tie that you have developed? That would be the real question in your case. I for one would not want to have to make that choice. I would rather it not have been an option in the first place. That is why I agree with Dr. Leeman`s responses. |
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Oposite Sex Friends Within An Exclusive Relationship Heading Towrards Marriage.Posted : 25 Sep, 2010 07:05 AMIt all depends on circumstancial situations. But if one of them is not is any relationship and is a good or best friend of the other who is in a relationship, they are heading down a dangerous slope because one of them is most probably going to develop feelings whether they like it or not. Then it is too late. |
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