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Cruelty isn't Christian
Posted : 15 Oct, 2025 08:53 PM

So if you get flattery and then hate, or just hateful words in person or letter, remember whether or not they say they are christian, if it's hurtful, hateful, it's not love. Not God. For God is love. So don't let anyone discourage you. I've been single for years, haven't even dated. I see almost everyday I'm on a new favorite list yet they don't write or if someone seems nice by the second letter I see someone banned them. I get flattery you're so beautiful then guess what, followed by some horrible insult usually saying no one can possibly love someone like me. Or asking how much money do I have. Or they write to say they smoke or hate cats or I'm obviously a bad person, ugly fat, and not a Christian. It doesn't hurt now. I have my cats, my talents. The more hate and ugliness I see, the more beauty i create in

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Cruelty isn't Christian
Posted : 16 Oct, 2025 05:32 AM

What you wrote although heart felt is kind of hard to follow. I do understand that you're hurt and frustrated and lonely. But Men and women both experience those and many other feelings.

Men experience it almost exclusively from women who think they are better and deserve a man that doesn't exist. Average men are looked down upon simply because they are average. I don't know where you find all these people who are doing all these things to you.

Perhaps you are falling for the sweet words of scammers and they lash out at you when they don't get what they want. Or perhaps the men you're talking to aren't the average nice guys that fill dating sites. It's likely a combination of both because here's the thing, average guys are skipped over for guys that are out of the league of most women. But these men will take advantage of almost every woman that shows interest in them.

But the average man who by the way is far and above the average women which you and almost every woman alive happens to be average and below. These average men would give average woman the world if given the chance.

So when an average man hits you up. Don't look down on him but look up to him as you would your creator and treat him like the man God made him to be.

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Posted : 18 Oct, 2025 07:31 PM

You have cats. I have dogs.

Yep! Not very worth it being on the internet. One offense or another. A waste of words. Most that write me are banned within 24 hours. But yes, there have been some snotty people here. Some post any age, then get angry that you write. I think many that get banned sling bad words and their hate letters are censored and they are immediately banned. But some escape judgment. Some should be banned and they are not banned. Some say some real offensive words when one kindly writes them. It is just a waste of words to even be here. One can be here for years and not meet anyone. I am on the favorite list of over 200 people and no one writes me among them. Correspondences are very brief. And Super Likes is somewhat a joke. Winks were better. Many that Super Like me get banned too. And increasingly the elevated members are banned. Here today and gone tomorrow relationships. But those I give my e-address are quick to ask for money. It is all a disappointment. A waste of years. Seems better to go to a fling site. The sites with standards just have scammers. More marriages just go to divorce of those that do marry. What incentive is that? One unholy union or another.

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