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8 women that a Christian man should never marry
Posted : 24 Jun, 2018 04:49 PM
Many single men and women look for and seek advice on finding a partner that is compatible with them.
1 - woman not Christian. The Bible is quite clear on this point: Christians should not marry unbelievers. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says, "Do not put yourself with the infidels under a foreign yoke. For what connection is there between justice and iniquity? Or what is there in common between light and darkness? (Segond) Apart from your decision to follow Christ, marriage is the most important decision you can make. You need a woman who loves Jesus more than she loves you. Put spiritual maturity at the top of the list of qualities you are looking for in a woman.
2- Materialistic woman without spirituality.
3- The diva. Some macho men like to pretend that they are superior to women. Divas are the feminine version of this male nightmare. They think that the world revolves around them. They do not pay attention to the fact that their words may hurt someone around them. Their words are harsh and their demands are often beyond reason. Some of these women may end up in church leadership positions, but do not be fooled by their super-spiritual speeches. True leaders are humble. If you do not see the humility of Christ in the woman you are dating, stay away from her and keep searching.
4- The Delilah. Do you remember Samson? He had been chosen by God. He had superhuman strength. But he lost his strength when an attractive woman understood his secret and made him the most famous haircut in the world. Like Delilah, a woman who has not given her sexuality to God will blind you to her charms, break your heart and your anointing. If the "Christian" woman you met dresses up provocatively, flirts with other men, posts inappropriate comments (with a sexual connotation) or tells you that she is OK for sex before marriage, get out of that relationship before she jails you.
5- The quarrelsome woman: Proverbs 21: 9 says: "It is better to live at the corner of a roof, than to share the dwelling of a quarrelsome woman." If the woman you are dating is filled with anger and grudge, your life together will be ruined by arguments, slamming doors and endless tensions. Insist on her to get help, to pray for her, and to be counseled about it.
6- The controller. Marriage is an alliance and not a contract or an expiration date. It works well when husband and wife practice mutual submission according to Ephesians 5:21. Just as some men think they can dictatorship in their homes, some women spend the manipulation to get what they want. That's why marriage preparation is so important! It would be very sad for you to discover two weeks after your wedding that your wife does not trust you and wants to dictate the rules of the game or make any decisions.
7-The girl to mom: It is normal for a young wife to call her mother regularly for advice and support. It is not normal for her to discuss with her mother five times a day about all the details of her marriage, including her sex life. Genesis 2:24 says that the man must leave his parents to attach himself to his wife. Parents must stay out of the marriage of their children. If the one you are attending has not cut the umbilical cord, pay attention.
8- The addict. So many people in today's church still struggle with various types of addictions - alcohol, illegal drugs, drugs, pornography - either because we are not fighting these sins or because we do not offer enough support to those who want to get out. Jesus is able to completely free those who want to escape. If you are thinking of getting married to a woman who is an addict, it would be wise to wait until she has faced these problems before getting married.
9- The best rule to follow in choosing a woman is in Proverbs 31/30: "Grace is deceptive, and beauty is vain; The woman who fears the Lord is the one to be praised. Look beyond the external qualities that the world values. Look at the heart. for more information contact me
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