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Homebody172

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Does he exist???
Posted : 24 Feb, 2008 08:02 AM

I am looking for a guy who doesnt look at porn....doesnt drink everytime we go out...doesnt smoke or do drugs...and likes going to church...maybe a little romantic....Now tell me the truth Does He Exist??

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Posted : 10 Mar, 2009 07:47 PM

Man, this is really discouraging to think you are not even sure if he exists. I mean, I know pride is a sin, but I pride myself on matching up to each one of those qualities. It is nice to know, though, that there are still girls looking for that type of guy...

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Posted : 26 Mar, 2009 12:58 PM

Yes, many men like that exist. I have met plenty. I don't think they will drop in your lap though. It is a long hard search which requires a lot of rejection.



I have my own standards and have taken up a corporate mindset for my search. I want to be in statistical danger of meeting girls with my standards (Because, of course, meeting one is not enough. What if you don't meet their standards?).



The internet is useful too because it allows you to meet many people, very quickly, without making you tired. Is your guy 1 in 1000? Then you must talk to a couple thousand.



What is a man like who would not look at porn? Where would he be? I doubt he would be a naive man who never considered it, but someone who made the choice to control himself. If he can do that, he might also lift free weights or study other languages (things that are difficult that require deliberate choices).



I've murdered the serendipitous ideal.



Also, there is no need for talk about how hard porn is to resist or how many good (good?) men look at porn. Just because one is absolved by God does not mean everyone else should find them marriageable. There are consequences to to actions. Porn will get you checked off some girl's lists. Porn may be normal to the world, but it is not normal to Homebody and she does not need to bend.

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Posted : 27 Mar, 2009 06:21 PM

Wow, how else can you be answered...?

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Posted : 15 Jun, 2009 11:54 AM

there are lots of guys out there that fit that description. Keep your head up and don't settle for less then God's best. Sorry your having a tough time.

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Posted : 20 Jun, 2009 04:42 PM

I know a very, very good looking man who belongs in the 'hottie' category, and he fits everything youre seeking.



They do exist, and they love their lord! Righteous men come in all packages, not just average.

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Posted : 24 Sep, 2009 06:46 AM

To guys who look at porn. GROW UP!! Life is out there rather than your own bedroom.

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Posted : 6 Dec, 2009 07:45 AM

I dont think what you're looking for is too hard to ask for. I've actually had the same problems with females. It just seems like a lot of them are so wild anymore. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy a good time and going out and all, but some people are just out of control. It's kind of scary.

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Posted : 11 Feb, 2010 05:14 PM

I would guess it's easier to not physically pick up a bottle than to control one's thought life, such as lust.



Sure there are guys that don't deal with lust. There are probably about as many out there as there are 30 year old virgins. No one has self control. Last time I checked we have all fallen.



I've struggled with porn a lot. Still do on occasion. Not proud of it, not happy about it, wish sex never was created.



It is almost like asking I'd like to find a woman who doesn't have a need to be found attractive.



Find someone super crazy in love with God and he's going to be much better off than someone who says there's lots of those guys out there.

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Posted : 20 Aug, 2010 03:46 AM

Yes, he still exist.There are still honest men.Just be patient, pray, pray, pray!

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Posted : 11 Sep, 2010 03:11 PM

Yes!!! In prison.......

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