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JamesEG
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 3 Sep, 2019 11:37 AMWhy are so many females interested in rushing into marriage or a romantic relationship? |
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Princess1957
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 3 Sep, 2019 03:47 PMnothing wrong with friendship always good to have friends |
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JamesEG
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 3 Sep, 2019 04:54 PMPrincess1957, I agree. |
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Chioniso
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 4 Sep, 2019 07:10 AMBrother JamesEG, what you are saying in your first part is very correct. We should establish friendship, familiarising and knowing each other better before getting into a relationship. To tell the truth in as far as I am concerned, I cannot imagine not having sex for the rest of my life. Its so health and fun to be in love especially with the right person. I want it but I cannot do it out of wedlock. The other thing is most of the men i have met so far, on trying to maintain friendship or relationship, they want sex and as a result I end up terminating the whole thing. God have mercy. |
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JamesEG
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 4 Sep, 2019 12:10 PMChioniso, thanks for sharing your perspective. |
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Ocean17
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 5 Sep, 2019 08:27 PMSome years ago, I was in acting classes and working in the business. One night after class, a fellow student and I decided not to follow the crowd and go out on our own. We decided to go near my house and after our Cheers, I suggested we be just friends, because at that time, I could use a friend more than another relationship. He agreed, as he was in the process of getting divorced. |
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Chioniso
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 6 Sep, 2019 03:39 AMJames i agree with you except this statement "It is better to be monogamously married than lustful though". This is not bible quote. Here you are trying to justify yourself. Lustful is sin. According to 1 Corinthians 10 verse 13 God made way for me to escape. If I say I like sex, I like it only when i am married. Anyway my God is above all. But that does not stop me from telling him that I want a husband to have sex with, a husband that supports my christian values and respects me. Besides all let it be unto His will. Because God knows whats best for me. Proverbs 3 verse 5 tells us not to lean on our own understanding, and according to your statement you are justifying yourself. Neither monogamy nor lust is recommended in the bible. But God has created a way for each one of us to escape every temptation. |
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Chioniso
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 6 Sep, 2019 03:59 AMOcean, my question remains, yes you became best friends, does that mean you had no feelings (to be in love) for each other? I thought if you become best friends, you are close and eventually through prayers God will move you to next level. |
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JamesEG
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 6 Sep, 2019 09:55 AMOcean17, thanks for sharing that story! It's wonderful that you developed that close platonic friendship. |
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JamesEG
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 6 Sep, 2019 10:10 AMChioniso, thanks for the Bible references and for your desire to submit to God's will. |
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Friendship First or Friendship OnlyPosted : 6 Sep, 2019 12:28 PMI find that many men want to skip the friendship part, something that I find very important. They don't want to go through the process of getting to know you better and build a friendship. What I have observed with most men is that their conversations are centered around love. Remove love from the conversation or bring up another topic for discussion, he will suddenly go quiet. |
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