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Moonlight7

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Posted : 21 Apr, 2020 06:14 AM

Take time to learn all you can before a in person meet.



Ask questions important to You.



Don't move to phone until you're comfortable yourself.



Online can reveal truths not pleasing to you. A man you wouldn't want to meet one on one.

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Posted : 21 Apr, 2020 06:16 AM

I'm having phone conversations

With a man I never met in person.



Great conversation at times but the reasons for meeting.up is not adding up.

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Posted : 21 Apr, 2020 06:18 AM

No one from CDFF.



Men here seem to like so!rn close bye.

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Posted : 21 Apr, 2020 06:20 AM

Men seem to like some close by.



Corrected

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2020 01:09 PM

when you are talking to a total stranger, there is no real way to know if they are real. I had an online messaging guy for 4 months. when I gave him my phone number, he was so foreign i could not understand a word he said. Background checks are SOMETIMES a good thing.

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2020 01:51 PM

That is why it is a good thing to meet in person as soon as possible and then as often as possible.

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2020 04:43 PM

i disagree. if I had met this man, no telling what his intentions were. talking on the phone first at least you get the accent, find out if they can carry a conversation , etc. Anyone can email pretty well. meeting too quickly can be dangerous.

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2020 04:53 PM

Unlikely. He probably would have ghosted you and you wouldn't have wasted so much time, if he was a con man. Having an accent doesn't mean they are dangerous, either. People are allowed to be born in other countries and immigrate. I've met plenty of men from dating websites. One even had a heavy accent. He was nice, but I did end up not dating him because I am hard of hearing and I couldn't understand him. Just meet in a public place and there is virtually no danger.

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Posted : 23 Apr, 2020 11:31 AM

Have long telephone conversations often. Imo



Rushing to meet could not work well . (Example)



If you ask a man is he dating someone , he says no.



Then you find out while dating he's seeing a ex girlfriend in same city.

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Posted : 22 May, 2020 04:33 AM

Well if anyone tried looking for either of you now, they'd have a job. As you've both changed your user names...:-)

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Posted : 24 May, 2020 02:21 PM

Who looking for someone, Jayzee You!

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