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I’m not going to ask no more
Posted : 8 Feb, 2022 10:55 AM

Before I use to get advice from friends about how to find someone, and almost all of them would give me the same advice, either use a dating app or go out and find someone. A, I’ve gotten to where I don’t trust dating apps, and B, I go out to church and to the store, where else do I need to go? Also I’m not going to waste gas and go somewhere farther away. That’s not happening. Sometimes whatever my friends would tell me to go out and find someone they would also tell me to just ask the girl out. I’m just going to be brutally honest, that doesn’t work, especially when I do it, because I’m ugly. It might work for people who aren’t as ugly as me, but it doesn’t work for someone like me. That’s why I’d rather wait until someone asks me when I’m out in a store or somewhere or wait until someone comes along to the church I go to and decides to become a member, but even then I’ll wait until she asks me, because if she asks me that would tell me that she’s not too worried about looks and that she must be a little bit of a decent human being. I’ll probably get a lot of flak for saying that, but I don’t care, it’s true, if all a woman cares about is looks she’s not worth being with.

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Starakotva

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I’m not going to ask no more
Posted : 22 May, 2022 12:38 AM

I think disco or bars.

Are you ugly? Talk to ugly girls than.

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I’m not going to ask no more
Posted : 5 Jun, 2022 07:29 PM

From my experience. Looks is literally in the eye of the beholder. During my school years I was called ugly. Age 20 apparently I am a nice looking guy.



A big thing is confidence in yourself. You just waiting around is honestly not going to get you anybody to be honest especially when you're a male and males tend to be in the roles of the pursuer and it mentions that in the Bible too. Go read the Boaz and Ruth story. The Bible kind of implies the roles of God's design to be honest with you. When I didn't confidence I wanted someone to come to me. As a guy with confidence I want to be the one doing the initiatives.



Also, you want to be in the right Godly relationship. You really want to trust God in that area too cause getting your heart crushed cause you rely more on yourself and not God and rushing the relationship is a recipe for disaster too. It's better to be single and then getting your feelings crushed to be honest.



Conclusion: You need to put a lot of effort in being proactive and you also need to put a lot of effort in a relationship when you gets one.

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I’m not going to ask no more
Posted : 5 Jun, 2022 07:32 PM

Do not give up hope and keep trusting in God. Be very confident in yourself none the less. God will bless your hard work eventually.



Good Luck Brother in Christ and may God bless you!

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