-oh i know. that didn't come out of a place of low self-esteem or anything. just something that really resonated with me and is a direction i would like to continue moving in. one can always be more, especially with God as the supplier whether it be of beauty, usefulness, or anything else he lays on our hearts. Thank you for the kind words and thank you for reminding and encouraging me to pray. unlike what i once thought, you can't say it enough.
Maybe this should be in BOLD AND BIGGER HERE at the TOP of the FORUMS?~~~
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Sorry for the stern message but this is very important. Now have a blast!
dear star, as one can see in your above post you have not learned.. i have asked you nicely to not be rude and insulting to others here. and admin has even posted the rules here so you would plainly see them.. it is your choice that you have chosen to ignore the rules. therefore whatever you get.. you have brought it upon your own self.
I know your pain. I feel the same way most of the time. It Isn't very often that I actually feel confident with myself. I have been told that I have nothing to worry about because I'm beautiful and blah blah blah...but It means nothing to me. It doesn't matter how many men go after me, or how many looks I get..I just feel like I'm not good enough. Maybe It's due to the simple fact that most men I have encountered have treated me like I was worth nothing...I guess I kinda expect every man to treat me that way now... so I make little to no effort to pursue anything with anybody because I eventually get ditched..It never fails. But, Alot of It, I only have myself to blame for though..Men want a girl with confidence.
I was always the one to compare myself to other chicks and wish that I could have more of there personality traits and yada, yada, yada..so In a sense It only made me become more Insecure. I have finely realized that I am who I am for a reason..God doesn't make mistakes.
You are a pretty girl..I know that probably means nothing to you but I still wanted to say It!