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Admin	Bored Posted : 7 Sep, 2007 07:27 PM when i was in the world, finding a date or going out was easy. Now that I'm tying to live right and do things the right way I'm finding it harder and harder to stay motivated. Besides church, where do Christian Woman hang out at I'm not on the prawl I am honestly lonely. This being single, male and Chrisitain thing is rough. Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 7 Sep, 2007 07:33 PM let me also add that I pray daily, I read and study the word consistintly, in fact I am in seminary now. So the spirtual piece I get, its the practical part I am having trouble with. Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 7 Sep, 2007 08:52 PM Hnag in there! Patience is a virtue, you know. Where do Christian women hang out? Probably most of them are at home, since most Christian women don't go out partying much. You never know where you will meet that special one. Yes, lonliness is very tough. But God will see you through it, just cling to Him. Good luck in seminary! Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 8 Sep, 2007 04:13 AM Hey Roc,I agree wholeheartedly,it is very difficult to find a needle(single compatable Christian woman) in a haystack (the world).If it makes you feel better your not the only one ! :winksmile: Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 8 Sep, 2007 11:06 PM There were studies done about couples, couples that last. The ones that lasted were people that knew each other already;work, school;friends; acquaintances and so forth. Meeting someone at a bar, picking on a girl in a public place, or even meeting someone online i think would fall into the category that researchers determined long lasting relationships don't emerge from. So the best way is to just go out as much as you can, make as many friends as possible, the more people you know the more possibilities you have. Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 9 Sep, 2007 05:14 AM Thats good word. lol, i may need a new job and enviroment however my days are filled with federal inmates, afternoons duel diagonis kids and evenings library studying. Post Reply
Cory View Profile History	Bored Posted : 9 Sep, 2007 06:20 PM I feel your Pain, I know what your Going through. Iv been looking for that speacial "ONE" for a long time, I know im young but i have. You see i Want a Girl/Woman That Believes the same as i Do, Not only as in God but That True Love Waits. I know i have been looking in the Wrong places. Finding a girl/Women Outside of Church is lNot like finding a needle in a haystack its like finding a wooden Toothpick in a haystack. But after a few bad experiences iv realised that When the time in my life is ready She will Come. I dont know how or when but i know it will happen. Because who knows us better than ourselfs? God. and Who knows when we really are ready, wether we think so or not? God. He knows when its gonna be the right time. Everything happends for a Reason. its all for a purpose, Good and the bad. I feel that im very good at reading signs from God. Thats his way of talking to us Besides through The Bible. Many people dont even think about it. for example Alot of people look at Hurricane Katrina as a accident. i dont. I was in Navarre Florida when Katrina Hit, "For those that dont know Navarre is in the Panhandle of Florida right next to Alabama". The waves Destroyed a few roads and the wind knocked out the power. Although i sat out in my grandmas driveway while things were going bad for New Orleans. and i thought about it how things happen for a reason, how this hurricane was originaly suppose to hit where we were Head on. but insted took a left and hit new orleans.. but even though everyone thought it was gonna hit us the whole time all along even when it was just a tropical storm. it was meant for New orleans. People ask why? why new orleans? well think about it. It was a bad place, The crime, prostitution, gambling. does it come together? You see God was taking charge, The streets of New orleans Needed to be cleaned. so he cleaned them, The Casinos needed to be destroyed. He destroyed them, and the prostitution needed to stop. He stoped it. I think God did it to Show all the non believers that he still exists and hes still in control. Yes the inoccent were hurt and killed, it was tragic, but I believe it was there time to leave this earth. Hurricane Katrina opend up opertunity for many things to happen. It Gave many Christians The chance to help and Whitness to people. It gave many people a new outlook on life. it gave people a chance to start over. If people would just open up there eys and figured out that it wasnt just a freak accident by nature, it was God making an Example. I believe It happend for these reasons and more. Because God knows All.I truly Believe that Everything happends for a reason, and that God Knows when the time is Right. Have faith in the Lord he is by yourside. God Has The right Girl picked out for you. try not to go looking for her just do your normal thing, Live life Have fun and Love the Lord. I promis you that if you Keep your faith in the Lord, love and follow God's word The best things will come your way. Since Jesus has been in my life i have a reason to be happy everyday even thorugh the good and bad i can still be happy. Keep your Faith in Jesus My friend, and She will come, along with many other Great things in your life. I couldnt imagine a life without Jesus. "Keep your Focus on Christ" Take care My friend!!!! -Cory Post Reply
Cory View Profile History	Bored Posted : 9 Sep, 2007 11:16 PM I feel your Pain, I know what your Going through. Iv been looking for that speacial "ONE" for a long time, I know im young but i have. You see i Want a Girl/Woman That Believes the same as i Do, Not only as in God but That True Love Waits. I know i have been looking in the Wrong places. Finding a girl/Women Outside of Church is lNot like finding a needle in a haystack its like finding a wooden Toothpick in a haystack. But after a few bad experiences iv realised that When the time in my life is ready She will Come. I dont know how or when but i know it will happen. Because who knows us better than ourselfs? God. and Who knows when we really are ready, wether we think so or not? God. He knows when its gonna be the right time. Everything happends for a Reason. its all for a purpose, Good and the bad. I feel that im very good at reading signs from God. Thats his way of talking to us Besides through The Bible. Many people dont even think about it. for example Alot of people look at Hurricane Katrina as a accident. i dont. I was in Navarre Florida when Katrina Hit, "For those that dont know Navarre is in the Panhandle of Florida right next to Alabama". The waves Destroyed a few roads and the wind knocked out the power. Although i sat out in my grandmas driveway while things were going bad for New Orleans. and i thought about it how things happen for a reason, how this hurricane was originaly suppose to hit where we were Head on. but insted took a left and hit new orleans.. but even though everyone thought it was gonna hit us the whole time all along even when it was just a tropical storm. it was meant for New orleans. People ask why? why new orleans? well think about it. It was a bad place, The crime, prostitution, gambling. does it come together? You see God was taking charge, The streets of New orleans Needed to be cleaned. so he cleaned them, The Casinos needed to be destroyed. He destroyed them, and the prostitution needed to stop. He stoped it. I think God did it to Show all the non believers that he still exists and hes still in control. Yes the inoccent were hurt and killed, it was tragic, but I believe it was there time to leave this earth. Hurricane Katrina opend up opertunity for many things to happen. It Gave many Christians The chance to help and Whitness to people. It gave many people a new outlook on life. it gave people a chance to start over. If people would just open up there eys and figured out that it wasnt just a freak accident by nature, it was God making an Example. I believe It happend for these reasons and more. Because God knows All.I truly Believe that Everything happends for a reason, and that God Knows when the time is Right. Have faith in the Lord he is by yourside. God Has The right Girl picked out for you. try not to go looking for her just do your normal thing, Live life Have fun and Love the Lord. I promis you that if you Keep your faith in the Lord, love and follow God's word The best things will come your way. Since Jesus has been in my life i have a reason to be happy everyday even thorugh the good and bad i can still be happy. Keep your Faith in Jesus My friend, and She will come, along with many other Great things in your life. I couldnt imagine a life without Jesus. "Keep your Focus on Christ" Take care My friend!!!! -Cory P.S I dont know why this posted at the top it was suppose to be down here where i am typing it again! sorry sorry! :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 10 Sep, 2007 07:14 PM Hey Roc, Yeah, it's true. We Christian women are probably at home a lot of the time. I guess the best place to run into us would be church or Walmart (I go there several times a week)! I have the same problem in meeting Christian men that have the same convictions as I do. Meeting someone that is truly compatible spiritually, physically, and relationally is no small task. It is definitely going to take God! Lord, help us to be patient. -Remnant Post Reply
Dallfinz View Profile History	Bored Posted : 24 Sep, 2007 05:14 PM Roc, I agree totally. I go to a church where everyone is either old or married. I am so much the outcast there that I am losing hope on ever finding the right christian man. I hope that research study that was quoted in this forum is faulty research because I don't get out much and don't really get to meet to many people. My only chance is the first encounter type of meeting. Remember, God can do anything...and he can bring the right person to you! Dallfinz Post Reply
View Profile History	Bored Posted : 28 Sep, 2007 11:40 PM Roc, I like book stores with coffee houses in them and the library. I go to local art galleries, sporting events, shows...and i'm still single ;) . Christian men and women are everywhere, they may not be your denomination but more people go to church than you think. Post Reply

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