Does true love have requirements, checklists, and expectations?

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United States
North Carolina
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Looking For
A Long Term Relationship
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No answer
Church Raised In
Assembly of God
Do you drink?
Willing to relocate?
Sure, why not
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Do you have children?
Do you want children?
Education Level
2 Yr College Degree
My Profession
I like all things pertaining to computers/IT and/or automobiles. Also, contemporary Christian music, symphonies, orchestras, and edm.
About Me
I try to live a simple and peaceful life. I've been a Christian since I was 25.
I can be gentle, patient, thoughtful too- most of the time anyway. But same as anyone, I'm not perfect. Two of my favorite scripture verses are Proverbs 3:5-6 and Matthew 6:33. These are about trusting God for guidance, direction, and provision instead of trying to figure everything out on my own and do it all by myself.

I believe the most important thing in life is our relationship with God because He teaches us what love is and what loving others really means. Therefore, I think it is through our relationship with God that we are able to find everything we need. Life doesn't really make much sense at all until you try to get to know the One who created it and ask Him to give you meaning and purpose. I think this is where true success is found. Life and love, wisdom and success, hope and healing are from Him.

Money, education, success; these things are nice, desirable, maybe even necessary- but they are not the most important things in life. I am not concerned with how much education someone has or how much money they can earn. I have found that education doesn't always mean that much, money tends to grow wings, and success seems to depend on people's opinions. But I know the importance of having faith in God and trusting Him to guide my life. I consider myself successful if I love God, respect Him, and live my life for Him. But next to loving God is loving the beautiful woman He has for me...

I am someone who offers a steady, faithful, and gentle love to the one he is in love with. Someone who wants to love that person with all that he has, for the rest of his life, because he knows that she is a wonderful gift and a beautiful blessing from God.

6 Set me as a seal upon your heart,
as a seal upon your arm;
for love is strong as death,
passion fierce as the grave.
Its fires of desire are as ardent flames,
a most intense flame.
7 Many waters cannot quench love,
neither can floods drown it.
If a man offered for love
all the wealth of his house,
it would be utterly condemned.

Song of Songs 8 (Song of Solomon), verses 6-7
Holy Bible, Modern English Version
First Date
First date: something relaxed.
I hope we become very comfortable with each other. I wish for us to be happy just being together. We may not need to do anything to enjoy being with each other. Just being together is most important. Anything we decide to do beyond that is a bonus.

What I'm looking for-
Please be Christian. Other than that- please be practical and patient at least some of the time. Loyal, honest, understanding. Someone who enjoys the simple and peaceful life (low-stress), who appreciates thoughtfulness, gentleness, and affection.

I am usually easy to get along with. If you are also, then we can concentrate more on us, enjoy life, and share our happiness. I would rather work on issues with you, rather than fight. I am willing to say "I am wrong", "I am sorry" and "Please forgive me", if appropriate. I am also willing to say "I love you" instead of going to sleep while angry.

I know that any potentially serious relationship starts with friendship. But I hope you can understand from my profile that I really want us to eventually be in love. What I mean is- there may be times that we need our space, but I want us to *want* to be together, even when we can't for whatever reason. If you feel you are not ready to give up some of your independence, I may not be the one for you. Otherwise, let's hold hands and take care of each other for the rest of our lives because of our love for each other.

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