really_54

"Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies"(Proverbs 31:10).

Gender
Male | 67
Country
Canada
City
Winnipeg
State
Manitoba
Height
6'0"
Last Login Date
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Age
67
Eye Color
Green
Body Type
Well Proportioned
Hair Color
Brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Non-Denominational
Looking For
A Marriage Partner
Church Name
Evangelical
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Catholic
Do you drink?
No
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Widowed
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Education Level
HS Graduate
My Profession
Professional truck driver / Independent film maker / song writer
Interests
creating christian based movies, acting, singing, writing songs
About Me
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Photos August 01, 2021.

Yes, your outward beauty will capture my eyes, but only your inward beauty will capture my heart

I am a Born-Again believer in the Lord Jesus Christ, looking for God's choice for a future mate. Although physical attraction is important to me, I am looking for a relationship that goes much deeper... that we truly become one as God intended. I am interested only in God's choice-- one who loves Jesus with all her heart. You may be single, widowed, or divorced (for Biblical reasons).

If you would like to know more about our ministry and the evangelical movies my son and I created, I invite you to visit our website by googling "HEAVEN INSPIRED MOVIES"

You also may be interested to check out our songs on YouTube, giving a message of hope to the world. Songs sound best on stereo headphones. 🎧 Feel free to share the links below:

"Blessed is the man (Psalm 1) - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/3V2WaQzCxcM

"You are my Rock, Lord (Psalm 62) - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/o0MfzMfQEk0

"Come Jesus Come - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/60OAADQbdRk

"Do Not Fret (Psalm 37) - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/uECp2IxGohg

"Do what you do - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/UKqACd5U37Q

"There is no one like You, Jesus - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/kmiaFHNxcig

"Loving n Kindness - Paul Janz" https://youtu.be/9YEwQwC4IQk

"Feliz Navidad - The First Christmas" https://youtu.be/nuSR2BsYrSY

My Beloved

Her lips are anointed with grace and love
Not an unkind word escapes her tongue
Her eyes are beacons of mercy and light
Her heart throbs with passion for Christ

This is My Beloved, fairest of all
No one compares to her, no one at all

She seeks not after comfort nor pleasure
For Christ alone is her only treasure
And if asked of God would lay down her life
Forsaking all to be found in Christ

This is My Beloved, fairest of all
No one compares to her, no one at all

~Paul

HAVE YOU CONSIDERED?.... Many women claim to be Ruth looking for their Boaz. However, could Boaz say this of you?... “Blessed are you of the LORD, my daughter! For you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, in that you did NOT GO AFTER YOUNG MEN, whether poor or rich. And now, my daughter, do not fear. I will do for you all that you request, for all the people of my town know that you are a VIRTUOUS WOMAN" (Ruth 3:10-11).

I am looking for a woman like "Ruth" who is altogether virtuous and beautiful. Could this be you? Drop me a line.

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What does God say about... this so-called Pandemic?... the Second Wave?... Social Distancing?... mandatory Masks?... the New Normal?... global vaccinations?... "And for this reason God will send them strong delusion, that they should believe the LIE" (2 Thessalonians 2:11). Do YOU believe the LIE?

Sorry, if you feel the NEED to wear a mask and also think you NEED to be vaccinated 💉 to be safe from covid, we would NOT make a good match.

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Here is some food for thought:

Think of this...To have spiritual and physical intimacy with someone...to feel the heart beat of that person's soul...to know that person's thoughts...even afar off....marriage....it is likened to the mystical union of Christ and the church.

I wrote these thoughts down when I first came on this site:
Sometimes I struggle with unbelief...Does God really care who you choose?...just find any old mate and make it work. Yet I am reminded what God says in His Word. "What God has joined together..." This scripture tells me that it's not always God that joins people together. The lust of the flesh, loneliness, financial security, it's expected of you, and the desire to have children, has probably joined more people together in marriage than God has. Hence...all the problems.

I am drawn back to Genesis...to where God made Adam. He was complete and perfect in every way. Yet it was God who said, " It is not good that man should be alone..." This was not Adam's idea...it was God's.

It was God who put Adam to sleep, took his rib and created Eve. She was NOT just any old lump of clay that God found lying around. She was formed out of Adam's rib. And Adam was now missing a rib. The once PERFECT man is now INCOMPLETE, and can only be a complete man when he is joined to the specific person that has his "rib". This is an important point...to be joined to someone who does not have your "rib" is to be joined to a stranger.

God could have created several women for Adam, thus giving us the impression anyone will do. Yet God made only one. Eve was the ONLY one that fit perfectly for Adam. Why? Because she was formed from Adam's rib. She is the ONLY one who can make Adam into a complete man.

And notice it was God who brought the woman to the man. ( Genesis 2:22 ). From beginning to end, it was all God's doing, not man's.

And where I and so many other believers have messed up, is that we impatiently jumped into a marriage out of loneliness, the lust of the flesh, or whatever, and realized only later we were never really in love with this person. No wonder so many marriages fail.

Had we got to KNOW the person in the first place we would have discovered we don't belong together...that she does not have my "rib"... that God is not joining us. But who can hear God when your flesh is so turned on and all you think about is how to satisfy your flesh when you are with her.

So ... ultimately... it is the flesh that is joining the two together...not God. So then they get married now ... because they are burning in their flesh and they want to be able to satisfy those desires. The guy's motivation for getting married is the flesh...he's not listening to God. So how is it that people say God joined them together when God had nothing to do with it?

There are people in Hollywood that are getting married one day and divorcing the next. Did God join them together? I think not.

That brings me back to the original point, "What God has joined together". If our heart is to please God in finding the right mate...then we should seek His face constantly in any relationship. We should seek to please Him and not ourselves when we are dating someone. We should HONOUR GOD ALWAYS in the way we CONDUCT ourselves around that person that we find so attractive. Why? So that we can hear God's voice if this is the CHOSEN ONE or not. As long as we are catering to our flesh we can't hear God.

There is someone special that is created by God to COMPLETE me...not just any woman will do...I am looking for my "rib". And I pray that I will have the patience and discipline to wait for GOD'S CHOSEN ONE.

There is one more important point that I need to add here. LOVE is a CHOICE. Even if God joins you to the right person... you still have to make a choice to love unconditionally... to die to self. I thought the magic in a happy marriage was in finding my "rib"... I was wrong. The magic is whether you are willing to love unconditionally... for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do you part. Finding God's choice is only the beginning. Loving God's choice is the challenge.

One other big discovery that I just made. After being on this site since 2008, I've come to the conclusion that meeting in person is the ONLY SURE WAY of knowing if two people are meant for each other. Pictures, web cams, and emails fall short of connecting body, soul, and spirit. It is SO important to meet in person. Then one can know for sure if there really is chemistry:

Here is a tidbit:

Something the Lord gave me recently which was a great encouragement to my heart. Why wait for God's choice?....because "Every GOOD gift and every PERFECT gift is from ABOVE"...James 1:17. Sometimes we settle for less and pay the consequences.
First Date
nice restaurant for a meal; talk, talk, and talk some more; make you laugh.
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