Author	Thread: guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship
victorious52 View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 07:46 AM would you be ok with that? sounds spiritual but uhh what if she is a lousy kisser! do yu really want to be with a person who doesn't match up well before you get married? lol :excited: what do you say girls?:hearts: Post Reply
View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 12:01 PM It was! They were each other's first everything though. And I think that is real neat and special. Not many people can say that. Post Reply
View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 04:03 PM I don't think kissing is a sin provided there is no lusting whilst doing so. If one gives a peck on the cheek or perhaps even the lips I doubt there will be any (for a few they still might). For me, I would be willing to wait to hold hands if it meant being with the most special and perfectly compatible female that God has chosen for me. Do I want to wait for marriage to hold her hand? No freaking way, but if it is her preference then I suppose I choose to comply. So kissing is obviously something I would also wait to do if it was what was wanted. Btw, I do think it's interesting how people justify passionate kissing as being "not as bad" as having sex. Sure the consequences are different but I think both are lustful activities and as a result both equal in sin. Having said that, I'm pretty much a hypocrite as if it was up to me and not my future wife, I probably would be okay with passionate kissing. I guess I'm worse off knowing my faults but refusing to do what it takes to overcome it... :( Is anyone else honest enough to share that they are in the same boat as me? Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 14 Aug, 2012 07:33 PM Crayola, I'll be honest enough to say that I'd be ok with some kissing (alright, maybe not super passionate kissing) before marriage. Yes, I agree that it can lead "elsewhere" if the couple isn't careful, but I'd still be willing to experience at least a few trial runs of the wedding ceremony kiss before the big day! That said, I'd also be ok with waiting until the wedding to kiss. Not my first preference, since I'm not crazy about the idea of that "first kiss" happening in front of a bunch of people...talk about awkward! But if it was important to my guy, I'd respect that. Some physical contact is important in a relationship, though. If a couple never touches one another even in the most "innocent" ways, they are missing out on a special part of the relationship. Holding hands is pretty harmless. Even hugs aren't too bad. Both allow you to bond with the other person and get comfortable with him/her. And, if you notice yourself finding ways to keep your hands full and unavailable, or always backing away when saying goodnight, maybe that's an indication that you aren't in the right relationship! As far as people who say you need to kiss to make sure the other person is a good kisser... Well, I guess I'd probably completely fail that "test." I've never kissed a guy, so I'm quite sure I'm a terrible kisser at the moment. If a guy wants to hold my lack of experience against me...well, he's probably not the right guy for me anyway. Post Reply
View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 15 Aug, 2012 04:02 AM In my future brides village they dont kiss on the wedding day in public. You wont see any expression of the physical in public. Their is a innocence about it that is beautiful much like America was in its early years. Could it be we are too experienced and have taken the mystery and excitement out of it? Like Christmas waiting to open that first present. Anticipation is a beautiful thing. My feincee and I are seperated by thousands of miles and we have deep intimacy together with out the hint of any physical. We anticipate one day enjoying our selves in marriage but it is no where our focus. Our focus is being unified in the ways that matter for a strong lasting marriage. Were building a foundation of faith, understanding, communication love and respect. Working together for a common good resolving issues together and making decisions together. When I was in her village their was a weight lifted not having the burden of worrying about the physical. I felt child like and innocent, care free..... America has become a melting pot of perversion and we are not aware of how much perversion has creeped into the Church and even our individual lives. Live in innocence because you are a innocent child of the King. Strength & Honor, Michael Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 15 Aug, 2012 05:42 AM Amen LTM! That is as it should be. Post Reply
View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 15 Aug, 2012 05:58 AM (It was! They were each other's first everything though. And I think that is real neat and special. Not many people can say that. } AMEN ! Post Reply
victorious52 View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 16 Aug, 2012 10:08 PM wow! i didn't expect any replies to this! lol you guys rock! :rocknroll: and girls too! :excited: Post Reply
victorious52 View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 19 Aug, 2012 06:45 PM MsMarvel View Profile History guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : Posted : 13 Aug, 2012 11:55 AM Following that line of thinking one could argue that you wouldn't know if sex with her was going to be any good, so it's important you find out before you marry her. Unless wondering "if she's any good" ends at kissing for most, though, I doubt it. +++thats not my line of thinking my dear! i'm just saying kissing and sex is very different ok don't you agree? and most people kiss during dating/courtship right! Post Reply
Moichepit View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 20 Aug, 2012 01:00 AM First of I would like to write that when I saw that special/show whatever it was, I was curious,excited, worried and unamused all at once. The reason being is that they I felt that they were placed as some twisted entertainment for all to see and laugh at (not with). It is true that Americans now a days are very acceptent of anything physical that with the mere though or sight of something pure is entertainment in itself. Personally I do not see anything wrong with holding hands (after the first/second date) because I agree with the other reviewer that it help the other feel more comfortable and secure with where things are going/ how the other person feel about you. I will completely respect the other persons personal reasons why they won't do it (touch/kiss) because if I believe that he is the one for me I will comply as long as I get that man. As far as the other reviewer that has a fiance oversees, congratulations and may God keep blessing your marriage. I love the whole innocence of the first encounter but the no showing affection in public is based on traditions. I do believe that there are some out there that needs to he addressed and get rid of because I love showing affection (limited) to the person I love wherever I want without feeling guilty/restrained. My Pastors are very affectionate towards each other and quite honestly makes me hope and look toward to one day build a secure string foundation such as theirs. The whole sex/kiss thing should no be a deal breaker, in fact we should be ashamed because is like admitting that we are proud of working at getting down and dirty for years when we should not have been in the first place. We have to work with what we were given (1 Corinthians 13:4�8) Finally we are human beings and require love to be shown in many given situations. It's another mean of communication. Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	guy gets married without kissing his woman all during courtship Posted : 21 Aug, 2012 05:53 AM I remember watching an interview with Billy Graham and his wife. She said that the first time they ever had physical contact was when they kisses after the minister said, "You may now kiss the bride". Love, understanding, tolerance, and compassion are much, much more important that the physical aspects of a relationship. Post Reply

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