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Rabbit32

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When women like a man they dont want to..
Posted : 15 Sep, 2010 01:38 AM

How do women act towards a man they like but dont want to (for whatever reason)?

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Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 05:32 AM

I believe in courtesy, but interested? That's another case, in my opinion. Are this what men generally have in mind of their female friends? Women can't be friends with a guy unless they're interested in that guy in the first place?

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Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 10:14 AM

it depends on the man. I for one like to BELIEVE that a man and a woman within bounds can have a plutonic friendship. :)

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riveroflife1

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Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 08:01 PM

a man and woman can absolutely have a platonic relationship. I have several but I also have boundaries.

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Posted : 21 Sep, 2010 02:22 AM

Proverbs 4:23 says " Above all else, Guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life".



I feel like it is hard to give advice about why a woman is keeping that distance. Only God really knows her heart. If a woman is choosing not to go further than friends and she has a Christ centered life, then who are we to question that. It is important to guard your heart and protect yourself from things of the flesh.



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Posted : 21 Sep, 2010 11:01 AM

I'm going to take this in a little bit different direction...probably not exactly the direction you intended, Rabbit, but perhaps a direction that will be interesting.



I'm sort of interested in a man that I don't want to be interested in. I met him online a year ago. We became good online friends, but never seriously talked about meeting or dating...we were just friends. Besides, he lives half-way across the country. This summer, though, we had the opportunity to meet briefly while we were in the same state, and we spent a couple hours together. Unfortunately, I discovered that I was very attracted to him.

That's where the "I'm interested in him but I don't want to be" comes in. I don't want to ruin our friendship. It's much easier/safer to just pretend that nothing has changed. I'll admit that I haven't asked him bluntly how he feels about me, but he has given no indication that he feels differently. So, our friendship continues with no awkwardness (and we are closer friends now that we've met in person), and we are once again 15 hours apart with no plans to meet in the future. I really wish I weren't interested in him...it would be much easier emotionally.



How's that for taking it in a different direction? :goofball:

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