Author	Thread: The " L" word.
Admin	The " L" word. Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 02:35 PM Ladies when do you think it`s proper for your guy to tell you he loves you? Before or after your married or atleast engaged? I`ve heard some preachers say it`s not right to say "I love you," till after marriage. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	The " L" word. Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 05:57 PM if a man isnt in love with me, why would he want to marry me? that doesnt make sense... he would need to let me know as soon as it happens, how else would we know where we're headed. It's called "communication" and you need to have if your going to spend the rest of your life with someone. Just my opinion Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	The " L" word. Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 07:08 PM Cobbler has a good point about understanding what true love really is; Stegoodie's idea of different levels of love and the context of love is also good. Nice job guys! I think I might most closely agree with what Tulip said, though. TwoSparrows: :ROFL: Sorry, but you wouldn't get a "yes" from me with that sort of proposal!!! I've heard it said that a guy shouldn't tell a girl "I love you" until he is ready to follow that statement with "Will you marry me?" But neither should he ask "Will you marry me?" before he says "I love you." Personally, I don't know that telling a girl you love her means that you must immediately follow it with a proposal...but you should have every intention of moving in that direction. Post Reply
paschen81 View Profile History	The " L" word. Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 09:13 PM hmm... interesting convo... but now I wonder where it leaves me cuz I certainly love all yall LOL just not in that male/female "romantic" love kinda love. I'm also one to say "love ya" to all my friends... so hmm... Post Reply
UrRibUrHelper View Profile History	The " L" word. Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 08:52 AM There shouldn't be any reason to hold those words of affirmation from a special person in your life especially when both are sure about their feelings towards each other and are willing to follow the path of marriage. Post Reply
View Profile History	The " L" word. Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 09:56 AM The L word just means more coming from some people than it does from others. If my mom tells me she loves me, I'll believe her. But, I definitely think its wise not to use the word love unless you really do. A helpful alternative could be 2sparrow's "falling in like" concept. It won't get you married. But at least its honest. Post Reply

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