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Mark1123

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 09:59 AM

I wanted to ask you gals if you would date a man who has vision problems even if he truely knew how to love and care for you? Just curious and thanks for your feedback! Blessings! Mark:waving:

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 04:58 PM

Yes, why not?

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 05:47 PM

If he were compatible in all other ways, yes.

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 06:31 PM

It would depend upon the situation, but I don't think it would be a problem as long as he wasn't helpless.

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 08:39 PM

Thanks Godslamb! I appreciate your input very much! Compatibility means so much. Blessings!

Mark

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 08:41 PM

Thanks for all your input ladies. That is very helpful! Blessings!

Mark

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 10:59 PM

In all honesty, I don't see how it would be a bad thing. If I'm having a day that I feel terrible and slob around the house wearing no makeup, in my sweats and tube socks with my hair in a sloppy bun, he won't be able to tell the difference! For all he knows, I could be dressed to go to a ball at the castle!

I'm just saying.

Also, you'll know that he is in love with you for who you are inside because that's all he can see.

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Posted : 27 May, 2011 11:07 PM

I actually once dated a man who was blind but he most certainly wasn't helpless. He serenaded me on the guitar as well as the piano. He sang. He owns a recording studio that he runs. He cooks. He texts. He cleans. He works in a convenience store as a cashier. He never let it bother him and I thought that it was wonderful. We just made a few adjustments. Instead of going to the movies, we'd go to a concert. Instead of telling me I looked beautiful, he would say that I have a beautiful soul. Instead of him opening my doors, I opened his. It wasn't bad at all. Different can be good.

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Posted : 28 May, 2011 07:17 AM

Thanks Miss Wendy. That's wonderful and I appreciate your input! Mark

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Posted : 28 May, 2011 08:04 PM

It's part of the "whole package" that would need to be considered, but sure; it's certainly not a dealbreaker.



One of the big questions that I ask myself when I'm getting to know a guy is, "Can I serve God better beside this person than I can alone?" A lot of the other questions are filtered through that. This would be one of those things that would be filtered through that.

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Posted : 2 Jun, 2011 01:14 AM

the question i would ask is,is Christ lord in his life?does he live for him,does he love himself and doesn't make the sight problem a problem that he has self pity and all?does he love me and believe i am an encouragement and a partner to him?and soo much other questions.but to answer the question ,yes.

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