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WHISPERRED110AC
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 23 Jan, 2009 07:58 PMWhy do some women view a compliment given to them from a guy as suspicious and deceptive; especially within this site or others like it? David |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 23 Jan, 2009 08:31 PMDavid, |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 24 Jan, 2009 07:29 PMI have a answer to this one...because when you have been so disappointed and hurt by The Opposite Sex...I don't mean once or twice I mean serveal times..(Your not even thinking negative about men or life) You just think "Ok Whatever" You might not say that to The Guy But Sometimes A Guy Plays "Head Games" they might mean The Compliment But It Just For "The Moment" "Nothing Serious" Men sometimes say things just to say things..."O Your Pretty" "Blablabla but there is no real meaning into what they are saying..."They really don't want a commitment" "So it kind of like a condition more or less..."You take it as it comes as "A Women Of God" "You don't believe it is real unless proven" "You don't give out Your Best Stuff..meaning gifts or really nice emotionally things until you know a person...Time And Time Again This Prove To Be So...Until "A Born-Again Christian Shows Me "Christ Love" "I will always be "Suspecious" So Hopefully I Have Helped You A Little... |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 24 Jan, 2009 07:32 PMI have a answer to this one...because when you have been so disappointed and hurt by The Opposite Sex...I don't mean once or twice I mean serveal times..(Your not even thinking negative about men or life) You just think "Ok Whatever" You might not say that to The Guy But Sometimes A Guy Plays "Head Games" they might mean The Compliment But It Just For "The Moment" "Nothing Serious" Men sometimes say things just to say things..."O Your Pretty" "Blablabla but there is no real meaning into what they are saying..."They really don't want a commitment" "So it kind of like a condition more or less..."You take it as it comes as "A Women Of God" "You don't believe it is real unless proven" "You don't give out Your Best Stuff..meaning gifts or really nice emotionally things until you know a person...Time And Time Again This Prove To Be So...Until "A Born-Again Christian Guy Shows Me "Christ Love" "I will always be "Suspecious" So Hopefully I Have Helped You A Little... |
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kidvid711
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 24 Jan, 2009 09:20 PMI don't think I ever give a girl a compliment, But I have seen other guys give other girls compliment and those are usually the bad ones. Also, I do know some of them right now and you are right LyndaRuth. I totally agree with you on that one. |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 24 Jan, 2009 09:25 PMHey ~ I'm glad to receive a compliment ~ think I can discern their sincerity :-) |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 24 Jan, 2009 09:36 PMSo, you do take surveys!:laugh: |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 24 Jan, 2009 10:49 PMNow i realized in light of the subject matter that my smart aleck comment could've been misconstrued. So, becasue I have a lot of respect for Mr. Whisperred, I would like to add my sincere 2 cents. |
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chozen2b
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 25 Jan, 2009 04:50 PMI think it has a lot to do with the woman's past experience as a previous poster said. If you been hurt or disappointed and have not allowed God to heal you, your preception of people and their motives can become twisted and you become very distrustful of others. |
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 25 Jan, 2009 05:06 PMThank you my sister, |
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WHISPERRED110AC
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Compliments and SuspicionPosted : 25 Jan, 2009 08:30 PMThanks Lynda, you did help and I hope you will not experience that type of pain again. David |
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