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e17perfertguy

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 06:28 PM

would some guy never stand a chance in winning your heart?will they never stand a chance even if they were the last guy on earth?

is it also true that nice guys never win the girl?even in christianity?

what will you want in your ideal guy?

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e17perfertguy

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 24 Nov, 2011 04:33 PM

i guess none of you ladies will tell me,oh well,i asked

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 24 Nov, 2011 05:30 PM

For you: Be conformed to the image of Christ for the sake of others around you (believers and unbelievers, men and women, all people)

Then pay the girl some attention, treat her with respect, and cherish her. Conformity to Christ will make you a more attractive mate. But the point is not to do something to get a girl, but to grow in spiritual maturity to please God.

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 25 Nov, 2011 03:26 AM

I have thought about this quite a bit ever since the similar question was posted to the guys. I am just not sure exactly.



One guy mentioned praying and studying the Bible together. Yes, I had thought about that and would agree there. If he gradually shares his heart with me that would make me feel closer to him, which would mean he is winning my heart.



On a different level, I'd say if he checks with me what I can eat and then brings me something that I don't normally buy because I can't get it in my area or it's too expensive. That would be sweet of him.



Those are 2 ideas, though I am not quite sure if there is any particular answer I could pin down and say this is it.

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 25 Nov, 2011 07:07 AM

Growing in spiritual maturity to please God is, of course, important for everyone, male and female. But that has to do with your relationship with God. In your relationship with a gal or guy, what I've learned is always best is to just keep being yourself and let the other person be themselves. You need to have areas of interest in common to relate to and share doing things in those likes and loves with each other, but you shouldn't be quick to reject someone just because you have some differences of personality or character, or even a LOT of differences, without giving each other a real chance, with God guiding you in doing so, to grow and truly get to know each other in developing a lasting relationship. Maybe this will only result in the long run that the two of you become two close friends, but it could also result in the two of you discovering that you have what it takes to choose to love each other "no matter what", unconditionally, in the Barefoot Precious and Beautiful Way True Christian Lovers we see or read about all around us do, in an everlasting, committed love realationship blessed and approved of by God that is the joy of the rest of your life that Adam and Eve and Mary and Joseph and every Christian helpmate in the Bible and throughout history and in this very day knew and/or know!!! :yay::applause::dancingp::hearts: Yay, Lord!!! Barefoot Hooray!!! for every such realationship we have as examples of True Barefoot Christian Love to inspire, encourage and bless our own Barefoot Romantic Hearts!!! :hearts::hearts::hearts:



Love,

Steve

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 25 Nov, 2011 08:49 AM

In my case, a guy can win my heart if:

1. he has a word of honor. Do things rather than talking.

2. He is a christian.

3. Eager to knw me and my family.

4. Sweet and thoughtful. Pays attention even on small things. (ex. buy snacks cause he knows im hungry even if i dont say so)

5. Responsible, patient and hardworking.

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 26 Nov, 2011 04:56 PM

Maybe you should reconsider your question, seeing that not all the ladies who come here, are here to give their hearts to a man, or to God for that matter.



There are many scammers and opportunist women here, seeking men of God purely for sexual and financial gain, and you definitely do not want to attract them.



Remember, that Jezebel is alive and well my brother!!



So do not be so discouraged when women here do not respond to you, if your heart is truly after God. Many of them are simply professing God to get what they want.



They have no true relationship, or spirituality about themselves whatsoever. As the Scripture says they merely have the form of Godliness, but they deny His power.



Walk in the Spirit of God, and He will give you continual guidance and understanding concerning the conduct and behavior of woman.



Peace my brother!!



Selah

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 02:56 PM

Well, I definitely want someone to win my heart!:glow: It just seems like it's always some hindrance. To be honest, I feel like nice women, sincerely God-fearing women never win the man. Or maybe they do. I don't think I understand the politics between men and women, even in Christianity. I'm actually saddened by the pool of men out here, but hey.





My ideal man would be blown away by me, inside and out. He would be more than happy to communicate with me daily. He would first and foremost love and obey the Lord and He would be my type physically. He would be a protector, provider and love me like Christ loves the Church, and that's a synopsis of my ideal man!

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Posted : 29 Nov, 2011 03:10 PM

to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?



*** Just be who he is in Christ Jesus naturaly...a Leader...a Lover of all people and lil ole me :winksmile:...a Friend...xo

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to all the ladies on here,what's a guy got to do to win your heart?
Posted : 1 Jan, 2012 02:40 PM

wow,i am soo amazed to find all the replies to this,i gave up awhile ago on checking for replies as i was not getting anything,this has been a great new year present,thank you to Iheartdogs, PJH53, Barefootguytolove, Rhead81, Devotedlove47, Holyghostgirl and Godsjude for giving me a good start to the year with all these messages :glow:

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