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What do girls look for in a guy?
Posted : 15 Sep, 2012 06:18 PM

I have a question... what do girls look for in a man? i mean I try to talk to ladies and all they do is ignore me. What can i do to get people to talk to me?

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Posted : 16 Sep, 2012 07:06 AM

It is definitely difficult to get the conversations started here. If I was in your age group, I would want to see a few more details in your profile about what makes you unique, or what you are passionate about. Give the ladies something to ask you about or comment on. God bless you and guide you in your search!

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Posted : 17 Sep, 2012 12:21 PM

I am not sure what you can do to get girls to notice you.

However, I like a man with a sense of humor, if he does not have that; to me he is boring. lol

Oh and I have to think he is funny; not him thinking he is funny. :laugh:

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Posted : 17 Sep, 2012 05:47 PM

Mark,



To a christian woman one of THE most attractive part is a man after God's own heart. Truly,,not just saying that you are, but out of the heart the mouth speaks.. What is in your heart ask the Lord to give you the words for your profile.



Also remember that we are visual people so hows your pics?? Some men I don't know what they are thinking when they post their pics, but here is a NO NO,,you can't see the face, or the full length body...The eyes are covered, or the tongue is sticking out or they have glasses on...ect...



Take a look at your pics, this is the first thing the woman will see...Do you want to attract her or get her to click on that mouse quickly to the next guy???

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Posted : 22 Sep, 2012 10:17 PM

My brother Mike thought I should put my 2 cents ;-) (Hope you dont mind ladies :-)



It's actually hard for us men here. I mean you could write an essay or share a moving life story and it still wouldn't get the ladies to write back. On the other hand, a lady can have 2 lines in the "about me" section, but be on 20 members favourite lists! Funny aye?



So what's the best way to get around this problem? There is no real answer. Ladies vary on what attracts them. However, I do have a suggestion -- Don't give up. Keep writing and one day you will get that lady that the Lord has in mind for you.



Spiritually speaking also, it has never been easy for us men. Jacob labored 14 years to have Rachel's hand in marriage!:bow:

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Posted : 23 Sep, 2012 06:23 PM

Well, your pics are kind of too small to really see what you look like. I guess you could write a little more. Christian women definate find a man after God's heart very attractive. Attraction is different for everyone, so there is no right or wrong answer. I don't see anything wrong with you otherwise. I've messaged a lot of guys on here before but no one ever responds. The guys that do message me are not what I'm looking for. Oh well.

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Posted : 24 Sep, 2012 03:22 PM

I agree with what has already been posted - but the one thing I look for is honesty, just being yourself. If women dont reply to that, or are not interested, then move on. You stay true to yourself and who you are and you will find someone that will be interested!



Another thing I find very important: the first message. I suppose every women is different, but for me I like something straight forward, a little comment about yourself or something on my profile. My pet hate is a message starting with "hey gorgeous" or "hey beautiful" (do other ladies find they get a lot of message like that? and does it bug you?)

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Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 05:12 AM

Integrity,honesty,faithfulness. A protector and leader. Well,i speak for myself anyway.:glow:

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Posted : 2 Oct, 2012 10:46 PM

One thing mike, what girls look for in a man. Is simply who tickles their fancy. You stand a 20 to 1 chance of meeting a reasonable lady in person than online. Guess what all this same reasonable ladies are all online.



Its not the ladies dont want the guys. its just the reality of security, who is the person on the other side( are they for real or another clown, pervert or simply no good, real christian or fake) it only takes time to really get to know people. Couple that with they cant see your facial expression, dont have a clue about your mood or what you thinking, cant see your mannerism. All this factors rolled into one.



In a world where patience is a scarce resource nowadays, a wrong intro, wrong typo, wrong picture, weird views, any slight wrong simply sends you out of competition.



The reality is this, if you desire a good thing, expect to work hard and long for it. It wont come easy.... breakthrough happens when you least expect. so keep trying both on and offline and in time you would get your beautiful wife.

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Posted : 3 Oct, 2012 12:11 AM

Honestly, as young as I am, I am looking for a good christian guy who understands my story and still loves me after knowing my past.

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Posted : 4 Oct, 2012 03:16 AM

Hello, Mark..

You could probably do some homework of listing all the things you're looking for in a woman..and be that man.. :applause:

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