Author	Thread: Would you date this guy?
Admin	Would you date this guy? Posted : 27 Apr, 2013 11:55 PM Would you date a guy whose marital status reads SEPARATED yet they are looking for MARRIAGE? Post Reply
shineme27 View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 29 Apr, 2013 11:13 PM I would not. Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 30 Apr, 2013 10:31 PM I agree. That is a little weird in my book. Does not make sense. Dont test the water till you are not together. Till the ring is off and he has found healing, I do not think he should be looking for marriage. Like my mom said. From the frying pan into the fire. Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 1 May, 2013 01:50 PM depends on the situation: for instance, maybe he/she is raising a child with the child's other parent on disablity or some other goverment assistance. He/she can no longer live with the parent because of reasons that are not safe or healthy for the child. They must, however, stay legally married, in order to keep recieving the money he/she so desparatly needs to raise his/her child. I tried to write this for both men and woman. DON'T JUDGE!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 2 May, 2013 03:55 AM I love it when individuals tell another not to judge because they judge people and situations every day. It is part of life to make judgements is it not? Unless you have no standards what so ever, right? Do you know, when you say not to judge another communicating their standards you are judging them for having their standards? The question is since we all judge and have standards what is the source of our standards ? Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 4 May, 2013 02:21 PM No, the man needs time to heal, not jump into another relationship right away. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 6 May, 2013 01:28 PM I would be reluctant to get involved but would'nt dissmiss the idea without first hearing what they had to say about the situation. Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 10 May, 2013 11:14 AM I know a woman who would get tired of her husband, she'd throw him out. When she wanted more money she'd asked him back. As a result of the separations, she had 2 children out of wedlock and both have different fathers. Her husband, forgave, forgave and forgave, and he raised the 2 youngest children along with the 5 they had in marriage. The parents are mine, my biological father is someone I've never known, in fact, I didn't know I was a result of an affair until I was 30. My youngest sister was told as soon as she understood about her father and I'm really happy about that. (guess they learned from mistakes with me). Separated = Married Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Would you date this guy? Posted : 3 Jun, 2013 07:11 AM It depends if this question is based on God's children (born again & baptised) or God's peolp (people who are not yet saved, still living their lives as they please) Since this is a christian site, my answer will be based on God's childen, living according to He's words' instructions. Let's not forget God's principles about marriage. This covernent is based on two individuals becoming one, not a third part or multitude. Accoding to God, these people are one. God's word even goes as far as saying "if two have divorced & considering to marry again, they should get back together again, cause God recognize them as one". The only time God condonds divorce is when one part has partaked in sexual activities (cheating on his/her partner) How much more if one is not even divorced yet, but just separated from his/her partner? These people are still in their covernent (inspite of their reasons for separating) My advice is: don't get into a relationship with this person untill he's sorted out, which might take a while. He's surely having problems with he's official partner, problems that they both not doing a very good job in solving, (by so saying, I don't mean to judge these two, though being separeted speaks volumes about their affairs not going well) hense they're separeted. Adding you in he's life won't make things any earlier, instead he's opening onother chapter while he hasn't closed the current existing one. Believe me you don't wanna be a third person in this, wether you came before or after they've separated. Post Reply