Author	Thread: What are ladies looking for in these site. is it a life partner or just to show up.
benexcel View Profile History	What are ladies looking for in these site. is it a life partner or just to show up. Posted : 24 Dec, 2013 12:16 PM I m tired of searching for a female friend on this site, most ladies when u send them mail, they don't reply and they just feel unconcern, why are they here if they don't want to a give everyone an equal opportunity to be their friend mostly the sincere ones. pls I not trying to be biased but speak my mind. compliment of the season to everyone. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	What are ladies looking for in these site. is it a life partner or just to show up. Posted : 24 Dec, 2013 01:35 PM Believe me its a two way traffic. I tried initiating friendship after few chat forums about people getting cold shoulder when reaching out, I had my share too just as I previously didn't relpy to some emails. I didn't realize how personal it was until people spoke their minds. I still don't take it that personal suppose its because I'm here more for the forum than anything else, so if friends come along its a bonus if not its still fine too. Though I learned that I should respond to all emails unless I don't feel confortable with questions asked I pull out from the conversation. Again it goes down to how you reflect yourself. Massages we send speaks volumes about who we are, they either invite or chase people away. Is it worth time invested in continuously writing back? Does the next part takes something with from exchanging emails with you (me)? How do you inpact the life of the person you've managed to have as a mail mate as interacting? Some people drain energy, some leave us refreshed. Some we connect and flow with, some we just disconnect all the way. Interacting depends on a whole lot of things that can inspire the next part to keep reaching out, or to withdraw or not to even bother from the first email sent..... We still need to respect their freedom of choice wether its in favor of us or not. Hello dear! Where have you been? Glad to have you back and a blessed festive season to you too!:waving: Post Reply
benexcel View Profile History	What are ladies looking for in these site. is it a life partner or just to show up. Posted : 25 Dec, 2013 05:01 AM thanks for ur contribution, I really appreciate. ur words are inspirational. God bless u. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	What are ladies looking for in these site. is it a life partner or just to show up. Posted : 1 Jan, 2014 12:26 PM Sisygirl......blessings to you this new year! I couldn't have responded to this post any better(smile)! Thank you. And in addition bene, don't be weary....in God's time, stay faithful!!! Post Reply
View Profile History	What are ladies looking for in these site. is it a life partner or just to show up. Posted : 2 Jan, 2014 08:50 AM Very true sisygirl:applause: Post Reply