With our (you) constant search for that special person that we believe God has instore for us individually; we encounter different challenge as we meet and interact with different guys. I believe that, this is where learning and discovery takes place. Most probably we might have had to visit our list of requirements and doubt check if we're still realistic with our expectations from the other part. What were the current changes that were made from your list weather be you have edited or deleted few things?
Please kindly share more of the encounters that inspired you to go back and change your list of requirements.
Wow Sis...where should I begin on such an interesting topic, LOL?!!
Let me say first and foremost that at the top of my list of requirements that has well..."shifted" in it's priority, has been the age of my potential mate! Let me explain...I've made myself believe for some time that my life mate's age would have to be in a range of 10 years south and 5 yrs. north of mine!
Well to tell the truth after interacting with a couple of brothers who've been as much as 15-20 yrs. my junior, exhibiting great wisdom and spiritual depth...well to say the least...I've become a believer in what some members of generations after mine can be and do, when they have truly humbled themselves to the power of God's Holy Spirit!! I've been pleasingly impressed(smile)!!
Now don't get me wrong...more than likely God will bless me with a man who'll probably be within my generation, but oh how wonderful it's been to imagine...LOL!!! Thank you my friend for allowing me to indulge(smile). Stay always in His perfect will!
Greetings sis and thank God for an opportunity of interacting with you for the first time this year on a public forum!
With me the entire list needs a brand new layout. Though what I've currently in discovered is:
Men are more about actions and appearing Godly, which is not wrong though there's less relating which is what I hunger for more than what he can practically do... God is a God of relationship. Everything He says and does comes out of Gods relating with His creation.
Inspite of what a man can do and how well he can do it, there's no relating without communicating!
I think I'm recently attracted to a man seeking and communicating God's discovered will and how well we can pursue that together. I wonder if there's any sense in this?
Yes my friend, there's great sense in that! Communications...no matter the age, experience, financial status, race, etc., is an essential key in relating to anyone, much less the opposite sex!
Now coupled with a deep thirst for the things of God and their ability to express that wisely...and hopefully if you both are attracted to one another, can sound like a wonderful recipe for love, concluding prayerfully down the isle together in holy matrimony(smile)!!
(I can't help myself Sis...I'm just a romantic at heart, LOL!!)
And yes, it too is a pleasure to interact with you again here on the forums...thanking The Lord that He allowed us to see 2015! In His Name...