Author	Thread: Speaking of winks...
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 6 May, 2010 11:35 AM how do you daughters of Zion feel about winks? Post Reply
Brandy774 View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 6 May, 2010 12:41 PM Tbh it depends. I talk alot in the chat...sometimes we will wink at each other just to say Hi ya! But if it is someone I never talked to ...it is strange. Kind of like they couldn't be bothered to send me a message. Post Reply
View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 6 May, 2010 02:10 PM Well, I always reply politely to them..... but honestly I would prefer a written note. A wink doesn't give me anything to do on. Give me something specific to reply to and it makes it much easier. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 6 May, 2010 05:31 PM I usually ignore a wink, but I'll answer a message. A wink from a guy usually makes me think that he's too lazy to write a message. Once in a while, I'll respond to a wink. Usually, though, it doesn't lead anywhere. A guy who only winks often seems to have a hard time talking. When I send a wink, it's because I like the profile, but something in it makes me think that he'd prefer to initiate. The wink is my way of inviting him to look at my profile (at least, I hope he will); if he likes what he sees, maybe he'll send a message. Post Reply
View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 6 May, 2010 07:33 PM well, if he's gonna wink, he should follow it up with an email. I usually dont respond to winks because it leaves me with the ball meaning it's me who has to figure out what to say in an email and it should be the other way around, men should do the pursuing not us ladies ;) If the Lord leads, I wil send an email...have met a few men who are my friends on here and we chat all the time. no love connection though...usually talk about God and ministry. Riveroflife Post Reply
View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 6 May, 2010 10:48 PM i dont feel nothing.. It�s like hello! i guess or.... what is for you? :s Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 8 May, 2010 09:56 AM What if its in conjunction with an email? Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 8 May, 2010 01:20 PM A wink sent along with an email is just fine. I would base my initial opinion of the sender on the message and profile rather than the wink, though. Post Reply
View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 11 May, 2010 11:38 AM I think about a wink as about invitation to check out his profile. And i think it means that he like mine :) ;) Post Reply
HeIsMyShepherd View Profile History	Speaking of winks... Posted : 7 Jul, 2010 09:43 AM If all you get is a wink check out the profile, if you like the profile wink back. A guy's idea of pursuing someone can be different for each guy. If he starts slow go with it. I wink to see if she winks back, if not she's not interested. Post Reply