Author	Thread: BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard"
4give247 View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 23 Aug, 2010 10:10 PM Im recently out of a 16 year marriage (abusive marriage) so he took advantage of my situation, he talked with me for a month (texting, phone & IM) he brought up marriage, sex etc. on more than one occasion. He talked about his kids etc. and how much he liked me, he even asked what kind of wedding I would want! I totally fell for this guy and drove to NJ to see him, he really didn't want to know much about me when I got there, well physically he did! He had seemed odd all along, like he was hiding something from me or he was too busy with other girls etc.. anyway he completly blew me off after the visit, he responded to my text the first day after but then he stopped with no explanation. Anyways I really liked this guy and he just ripped my heart out without a care in the world. I dont think he really is a Christian, didn't see many signs. Oh yeah btw he sent me a nude photo of himself, didn't open it up in my email till after the visit. I think hes just on here and several other sites trying to use women for sex, he also had several windows live messenger names and a few email addresses? odd? Anyways just don't want anyone else out there to go thru the hurt Im going thru right now because of how badly he led me on...4give247..my user name Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 23 Aug, 2010 10:39 PM I want to tell you that some men on here only want one thing. I will take this to heart when talking to men. I want to say that I will be praying for you. You are a pretty women and should hold yourself very high. I have been in the same kinds of places you have been in life. God has a reason for everything that happens to you. Pray about everything before doing them... Hope it helps and God Bless:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 06:25 AM I think it is important to learn from every personal relationship we have. God uses everything to mold us into the person He wants us to be. If this person is still on this site, it is easy to send a notification to the Administrator to block them. Post Reply
View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 03:14 PM I know this is for girls.Being a guy I have this to say.turn him in.People who do this get kicked off. It is sad but he does give all the good guys a bad name. Not all of us are like that.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 25 Aug, 2010 03:14 AM I'm sorry you experienced this. I went through something similar with my ex-boyfriend, who also happens to be on this site. What is up with Christian guys who like to send nude photos of themselves anyway?? It makes me want to vomit. Post Reply
4give247 View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 25 Aug, 2010 09:12 PM well I hope I dont wind up talking to your ex since hes still on here! you should tell his user name so the rest of us don't get caught up with him. What state is he from? Im talking to a "nice" guy from CA.? clues?? please Post Reply
View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 02:54 AM I'm not sure he's active on here, 4give. Shortly after we broke up, he got the bright idea to start up his own dating site (with a group of others) and was mystery shopping some sites. Based on the photo and info. in his profile, it seems like he probably just joined around that time. Because I'm refer to him quite a bit on here, I feel a little weird sharing his username. While he was a total creep while we together, he may have changed. Guys do repent... It does happen... I don't want to permanently smear his name on the internet! I will say that he lives in CA and is in his mid-40s. If that matches your guy, feel free to send me a message with the name of your guy, and I'll be glad confirm/deny if the guy you're talking to is him. Post Reply
carmi View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 27 Aug, 2010 07:54 AM With God's comfort and grace, I know you will recover. I met a similar guy at another Christian site who had the same weird "activities" in his life. Please be aware that not all men who profess that they are "Christians" are actually Christians. They just log in to sites like these to lure innocent women and play emotional games with them. This is called "internet seduction" and these guys are mentally unstable and emotionally unprepared for genuine commitment. The best thing to do is to start with friendship and a period of writing, phone calls, and communicating by emails. What a person writes most often reveals how he thinks. It will reflect his character in a way, so be observant and discerning. There are a lot of internet "wolves" out there and only God can protect you from them, so prayer and lot of wisdom is what a Christian woman needs. Post Reply
View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 11:41 AM I havel called no woman or given her my phone number on this site.I have been here a year.Some have my facebook page or email.That is all.:prayingm: I am carefull as to what I say here to the ladies.I have not known any lady long enough to visit her either. Dennis Post Reply
rhead81 View Profile History	BEWARE OF NJ_Christian "Howard" Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 06:57 AM I'm new here but based on my observation there are a quiet few who have fake profiles and play games. They are pretending to be christians but just in words. I know there are good men here who are serious on their purpose and im hoping they find good woman too. Post Reply