Author	Thread: Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile?
Admin	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 02:13 PM Does it make you think the man is more serious about committment or does it make you think something else? I am marriage minded but I'm not in a super rush to settle down, I just want it to happen in good time. I just want to know if it has any kind of effect on how you think of the man, etc. It doesn't scare you away does it? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 04:48 PM It does not scare me away, as I am looking for the same thing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 05:04 PM if I wasn't looking for a marriage partner myself, I'd be a little iffy on it, cause it does make me thing wants to be more committed and possibly even move faster along a relationship than someone that just puts looking for a date. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 2 Nov, 2010 05:25 PM Well, to me the whole point of dating is to find someone to get married to...so it wouldn't scare me off. The only reason that I have "anything" in the Looking For section of my profile is because I found that when I had more specific info there (either "marriage" or "long-term relationship"), the guys who contacted me wanted to move VERY fast...even if I said I wasn't interested. They seemed to think that because I want to get married, I'd settle for the first guy to come along, even if he didn't match up with any of my preferences! I think I tried to explain in my profile, though, that ultimately I want to get married...just not rush into anything! Post Reply
marikashome View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 09:04 AM It doesn't bother me. Post Reply
hubbarddebra99 View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 3 Nov, 2010 11:40 AM kinda creeps me out! been through two bad marraiges, like to take it s-l-o-w. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 06:07 AM There are those guys out there who just want a wife, in the same way they want a diploma on their wall, and car in their garage. Then there are those of us who are honestly seeking for a woman to be by their side, someone whom they can love, cherish, and grow old together with. It doesn�t matter what you put for your profile, women will read into it what they want, without ever taking the time to find out the truth. Usually the ones that haven�t been hurt before will think the better of you and the ones that have will think you are just looking for a trophy wife. I say keep the fact that you are looking for a marriage partner on your profile, since that is in fact what you are looking for, and that will filter out all the bitter ones. One thing I have learned in life is that no matter what you do, there are always plenty of people ready to tell you that you are doing something wrong, and very, very few who are willing to tell you when you are doing something right. If you ever find the one who is willing to tell you that you are doing something right, marry her. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Ladies, what are your oppinions on a man having looking for a marriage partner on his profile? Posted : 4 Nov, 2010 10:35 AM The best thing you can do is try to clarify what you mean and then hope for the best. Like Cobbler said, you can't make everybody happy. Saying something like, "I'm not looking to rush into anything, but ultimately my goal is marriage, not simply dating to have something to do," should cover your bases in both camps. Post Reply