Author	Thread: The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2).
Admin	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 02:45 PM So ladies,i've decided it's put the thread out now,just as promised.My questions & comments i have to share with you today is this: Most of you have put "Marriage Partner" in the " Looking For" section in your profile.So my question is for those who put that on your profile,will you still make a friendship with guys on here? Now my question is for those who put "Anything" there,what do you look for when you put that on there? I asked this because i understand you have your reasons,but the wrong type of guys may think that means "desperate" & it's possible you'll end up getting the wrong attention for that,since CDFF have "freaks" on here.My question is to those who've put "Friend" on your profile,even though you've put that on there,would you still look for a guy on here,or it's possible that you've found one already?I ask that one because when i come across a girl here & we've talked for a while,it's hard to figure out what she's looking for on her profile.Wow! that took a lot to write!:laugh: Post Reply
marikashome View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 04:34 PM I'm on a Christian dating site. I'd love to meet the right man and get married, but I'm happy for the friendships I've gained here as well. I'm not sure what I put in my profile that I'm "looking for". Each word carries weight of it's own on a site like this, doesn't it. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 05:30 PM Yes, I would make friends with a man on here. I have. We enjoy talking to each other and have shared a bit about our lives, but we are not romantically interested each other. He also lives in Michigan, which is a deterrant. He recently found a lady on another site that lives in his city, and I am happy for him and congratualted him on it. We still chat now and then. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 05:47 PM Hi mrwiseguy. It's nice to meet you. You have some good questions there. It was hard for me to decide what to put in my profile, especially at my age. I tried one way, then decided to go with "anything".But maybe that wasn't a good choice word. I don't know. Mainly I would like to make some good friends and if they live close enough, possibly get to meet one another. And go from there. Have a great new year and God bless you. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 05:56 PM Just a technical note for those who selected anything. When someone does an advanced search, the only way you will come up in their search is if they select every option. There is no option on the search page for �anything�. If they unselect even one option you will not show up in the search results. Just something to consider. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 06:06 PM I put that I'm looking for "anything" just because my profile gets more views that way! :applause: I did point out in my profile, though, that I'm ultimately looking for a marriage partner...but that I'm mostly on HERE for the forums. As far as making friends goes, I'm not completely opposed to it. However, I do have "real life" friends and I'm not likely to keep talking to someone online who only wants to be friends. The one true friend I made on this site started out as a romantic interest. That's the only reason I ever kept talking to him...I thought something might work out between us. It didn't. We talked online for nearly a year, then had the chance to meet in person. Our friendship is still strong! Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 09:01 PM I put down friends, because, thats how I view any relationship will begin, as friends. After all, if you don't like the person you're with, how will the relationship last. But honestly, I want to eventually find the one man God has planned for me. Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 01:39 AM I am one who put looking for a friend. Because although my marriage 22years ago is null and void from the beginning according to our family code, I need to get a judicial decree in order to remarry and it takes time to roll in court and for me to earn more money for the legal fees. I've been single parent for 18 years and righting my status already cost me 30x what that fake marriage cost. I have loved and lost and been crushed and broken because he just can't wait for me. I don't want that to happen again. So a friend is welcome while my petition is rolling and anyway at the moment I am enjoying my girls, my dog, my little garden, my job...counting the many blessings ease the healing process. And I enjoy reading at the forum. Sometimes I deactivate my profile to just read then topic come up I am itchy to contribute my voice I reactivate. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 05:41 AM Really Cobbler? I didn't realize that...I just know that my profile gets a LOT more views when I have it set to "anything" instead of one of the other options. I might have to play around with different things, though, and see if the quality of the viewers changes. Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 06:10 AM Thanks for the info Cobbler------ I didn't know that either. chevy Post Reply
View Profile History	The "Asking you Ladies" Thread (Pt 2). Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 06:47 AM A woman sent me a message on this site and became curious because she didn�t show up in my advanced search list. Everything was there, except that she had �anything� marked. The only way she would show up in the advanced search results was if I selected all the options. Post Reply

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