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Amary View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 13 Aug, 2013 07:22 PM We knew each other from this site, we have never met for we are 10000 km away but we committed into our relationship and committed our relationship to Him. Sadness he broke me up triple..But even more sad "I still love him" Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 14 Aug, 2013 06:27 AM 4months is a very short period for a couple to break up in 3different times. Something was surely not right dear friend in that relationship. Nonetheless, I'm sorry dear since you already were attached to him. Stick around a right person will come along in due time. Best wishes on your seach dear lady Much love to you sis' Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 14 Aug, 2013 08:15 AM @ Amary, Not sure if you've been rejected by 3 guys in 4 months or 3 times byt the same man in 4 months, but here's my comment: Sweeyt I'm so sorry to hear of your pain. i remember that kind of pain, fortunately, it won't last. And really deep down inside, you know that sis. It's just a matter of your being ready and willing to movie on. One good thing about the relationship is that you never met the guy. I've not fallen in love with someone I've never physically met, so I don't know for sure, but I'm guessing you're never meeting him will also be a blessing in the long run. We (women) are wired to put everything we have in a relationship, I'm not saying men aren't, but it's different, IMO. We just have to be careful when we see it happening. Giving all we have is not for everyone we meet. Just because a man says some nice things, says he wants to meet you, tells you your beautiful,or you're the one for him or offers to help you spiritually, especially in a free internet dating site doesn't mean it will work out, and there are frauds here that attach themselves to women. Remember, meet a guy, see if you have chemistry with him, see how he treats you face to face before you invest everything you have in him. Here's a funny thought: what if your relations progressed and then you met the guy and found that he turned YOU off (there was no chemistry), after feeling you'd fallen in love with him. Guard you heart sister, it's too valuable to just throw away. Told to Jesus about it, honestly, He's right there, He understands, He knows the whole thing, cry, yell, do what you have to do, but don't miss out on Jesus' help, He will get you through this. I wish you the best. You will be ok, promise. hugs Artsy Post Reply
Amary View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 15 Aug, 2013 08:26 PM Thanks sis for you warm advice. I'm a lot better now in the love of Jesus healed. Yes the same guy...he broke me up 3 different times. 20 may, 22 July and 11 Aug. We knew each other on March and abt our birthday on April (we have 2 days different birthdate and same baptized date) we were falling and committed to our relationship. he committed then he broke then he promised with God when we prayed together over Skype, then finally he couldn't keep his words again of being hurt me over and over. Yes it worked well and sometimes he had a hard time regarding to his ex-family but we planed a lot and we believed that it is not accident that we were together here. We planned of marriage, relocate after we meet, even wedding bands are already made by our decision...but then..all plans were ruined he gave me last reason of no peace with me. Please move on, live your life without me. I thought it was like before..he would turn back and say I love you again, but then I found out he is back here searching for another love. I'm sure now I disobey and declined what God has been telling me through my pastor who gave me advice Abt him isn't the right one. Post Reply

Amary View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 15 Aug, 2013 08:41 PM Thanks bro. For your reply.. Yes it's very short to call Christian love for its long suffer.. Yes many thing are not right. What he told me to accept what we were; I'm an Thai, he is Kiwi; cultural different. I'm single never date to western, he is divorced with 2 kids with Thai ex-wife I'm and architect, he is a farmer I'm serious to my life and try my best till my master study until I know God i have nothing without Him, he is easy going, did trade school after HS and early age married. When we argued to those differences, he told me its called "teething" can make us grumpily and cry but later on it will be ok. Now I accept what God's will for us. Post Reply
Amary View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 15 Aug, 2013 09:59 PM Sorry for some typo, I used phone to type when i reply the post. GBU Post Reply
GWENDOLYN22 View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 23 Aug, 2013 10:12 PM Hi I am gwen what I am doing is just talk know for sure first ,an even if you know for ssure still keeep your dont be ancious,hurry and through your Heart out .talk to menny of them be casual, I mean just friend. Dont stop til you get someone ,ook Post Reply
lizamari58 View Profile History	I was rejected for 3 times in 4 months relationship Posted : 15 Sep, 2015 12:07 AM What I can say is.....You cannot beg for love. Love should be given- not asked for. If a guy dumped me once....there will no second time nor 3 times. It's not a matter of pride . You just have to have self respect . Do not push men to love you or marry you. Pls do not be obsessed with the guy who knows no commitment. What your life would be granting he married you? You still love him .....after dumping you 3 times? It takes two to tango my dear. Find the right man who deserves you. Post Reply