Author	Thread: What does this mean?
Admin	What does this mean? Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 07:07 PM A message I have just received. Sorry if this is in poor taste for me to post it verbatim on the forum, but I will allow the sender their anonymity. "Subject: Great! Now take it down. We are all singles here. No sense in posting photos of a couple is there? Nite nite :waving: " Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 07:37 PM If I was a bettin man ild say it was in reference to your "about me" Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 08:09 PM Lol! Well, I guess what I mean to ask is �How should I take this?� Do I really not belong here since I have already found a boyfriend here? My participation on this site is very off and on, because there always comes a time when I cannot stand the public forums any more (let me just say there is a LOT to say for the inflection that comes with speaking rather than typing), but does having a boyfriend warrant deleting my account? I�ll admit that when I first read it I got a little offended and couldn�t help but wonder if there wasn�t some spite in it, but I don�t think that�s anything I need to worry about. Post Reply
Rabbit32 View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 08:25 PM Well two things :) 1. I would let it roll off your back, if thtas what he meant what authority does he have, 2. I hope all women see this and understand :) I understand women use non verbal cues when talking, and I think that makes them great communicators, however I have found that if I want to live in harmony with my spouse, and the body of Christ, I need to understand the opposite sex, how they work, how they respond, and give them grace, and lots of it. I believe that it applys to women too. There is a saying I learned in the Marine Corps "dont expect, inspect" or Proverbs puts it "the discerning heart seeks knowledge, but the mouths of fools feed on folly" If it were me I and I dont quite unerstand what some one is saying, I would go ask that person in private. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 16 Sep, 2010 08:38 PM Yeah, I kind of came to that same conclusion very shortly after posting it on the forums... I guess I just wanted to be like "Hey, look at this jerk," when that's really not a good thing to do. I was just so annoyed to get that message, and that when I tried to politely respond, just got told more rudely that I have no business on this site. Guess I just wanted to feel justified. Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 17 Sep, 2010 06:18 AM It sounds spiteful to me. Ignore it. There is nothing to be gained with corresponding with people like that. My profile states that I am not searching profiles on this site --- and I've gotten a couple of emails from men who ...... shall we say they wanted to tell me they thought I was wrong and not following God's will. I ignored them. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 17 Sep, 2010 06:36 AM I think the person is jealous that you've found someone. Just ignore it! There are other people on here who are either already dating/engaged, or who are just on here for friendship and the forums. I fall into that latter category. While I won't close any doors if the right guy should come along, I just really don't feel that I'll find him on this site...but I like the forums a lot! Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 17 Sep, 2010 03:07 PM The guy is jealous, hurting, and rude. Yes, he was in the wrong. Post Reply
Looking4rU View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 17 Sep, 2010 07:03 PM I like seeing the couples pics and stories, it shows that it's possible to find someone compatible, it's encouraging and I'm happy for everyone that has found someone. To me it would be terrible to be on a dating website and there are no success stories. Ugh. Tina Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 17 Sep, 2010 09:20 PM You're not alone... I'm in a relationship too and have gotten my fair share of rude/weird/inappropriate messages. My boyfriend is on here also, though he hasn't mentioned getting any messages. And he's super cute; it surprises me that the ladies aren't fawning all over him! Post Reply
View Profile History	What does this mean? Posted : 19 Sep, 2010 11:51 PM 1) the person who compleins about your coupl foto has not eaven taken the time to realise that the person on ur side is your b-friend and you found him through the site. this person wants to say something like he would prefer to see a FREE person without an other guy ... 2) there are some on the site that does not look for anything but friends (and not as a first step but as what they seek) 3) its realy a kind of "service" to stay at the site after finding each other here 4) its again a kind of "service" for those who do not want to loose theire time with whatching not interested for more people to post a foto from you as a pair :-) 5) so feel free to be free to be and enjoy Post Reply

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