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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 23 Jun, 2009 09:28 PMOK, ladies here's the deal my friend Chris and I were hanging out today and he started to get on my case about being a virgin again. This really doesn't bother me that much anymore cause I'm used to it .I usually just tell him it wouldn't be so funny if this 6ft. 3in. 200lb. Virgin kicked his butt:boxing: and then he leaves me alone,but then he said something to me that got me upset .He said �buddy even If you do find a girl that's over 20 and still a virgin your not going to want her ,because shes probably only a virgin because shes unattractive and the other guys did'nt give her a second look�.So I thought this was pretty low and I know its not true so I would like to make a request . If you consider yourself to be an attractive Christian girl and still a virgin because you choose to be, please post your thoughts and tell Chris what a jerk he is and prove him wrong! |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 24 Jun, 2009 10:37 AMWell, not going to attack him, but I'm a virgin and so is another friend of mine. I think we are both attractive (in the right light, lol), and my aunts and parents were all virgins. They were not bad-looking. There are Christian guys that are good-looking too and yet still are virgins, including yourself. Personally, I think only adds to attractiveness. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 24 Jun, 2009 06:59 PMI'm a 27 year old beautiful virgin and proud of it. Let me tell ya, it's not easy for women either. You have to remember that your friend Chris totally doesn't get it - he is immature and doesn't understand God's plan, so of course he's going to hassle you. Deep down, he knows you have something special that he can no longer get back, which makes him jealous, even though he won't admit it. But you know the truth about God's design. Be a man and stand up for the truth. Remember, your citizenship is in heaven and you answer to the King, not your friend. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 24 Jun, 2009 07:02 PMP.S. If he does it again, don't show your annoyance or threaten to "kick his butt." Just sadly shake your head and look him in the eye sincerly and say, "I'm sorry, but you just don't get it, man. I'm following God's plan, not yours. I hope that one day you'll understand it yourself." After that, don't even discuss it, just ignore him on this issue. You know where you stand. You don't have to defend yourself. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 26 Jun, 2009 09:51 PMWell sorry it took me so long to get back to you all. Iv gotta say I'm kind of disappointed to the response to this thread,I was hoping for a more overwhelming response but o well. As for Prov 31 Lady thanks for the advice but I think I'll stick to threats of physical violence. I like what you said but I don't think it would sound right coming from me . |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 27 Jun, 2009 01:58 AMwhat if you lets say meat a girl who is christian, you guys have things in common and get along very well, things work out just as you imagined ... ... ... and then you find out shes not a virgin anymore because couple years before she was not christian and done all kinds of things you don�t do when you are christian??? what then??? our God is a God of second chances! |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 27 Jun, 2009 07:37 PMThats a good question desipe ,and its a scenario I'v gone over in my head before.I really don't know what I would do ,I guess I would feel vary hurt and disappointed.I would fell cheated ,like I just wasted my time. Now because I'm a Christian Its my duty to forgive her but could I forget, I doubt it, I'm to much of a jealous person to be able to do that, but if I was really that in love with her I guess I would just have to get over it.Hopefully it doesn't come to that though. Although with my luck lately I would not be surprised if something like that happened. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 27 Jun, 2009 10:10 PMdear jarred, welcome to the forums. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 1 Jul, 2009 02:50 AMWell. ...I'm not a virgin BUT AM A WOMAN so my thought count. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 1 Jul, 2009 09:47 PMWell italiana thank you for thinking so , I do not get complements like that vary often. To bad the other girls on this site don't think that or we probably wouldn't be having this conversation ha ha:laugh:.Your right about my friend he is an idiotic,closed minded looser :dunce:if I hadn't known him for so long I wouldn't even hang out with him. He wasn't always that way though he used to say that he and his girlfriend where going to wait until they were married but I guess she changed her mind:angeldevil: so about six months ago they shacked up and hes pretty much bin reminding me ever since .I guess he feels like he beat me and he knows I hate to loose, I mean I really really hate to loose. |
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MY FRIND CHRISPosted : 7 Jul, 2009 12:14 AMWell, I might be a little late in responding, but I also consider myself an attractive young woman and am also still a virgin AND I'm 28, ALMOST 29. It sounds like you need to maybe be finding a couple of strong Christian friends who are also waiting for marriage. It would help to have something to counteract the negative view of sex that you're getting from your friend. I think you'll find that you're not in as much of a minority as you might think. Are there guys at your church that you respect that could be supportive of you in this area? Even older guys who've dealt w/ this could be a real help. |