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I Need Some SuggestionsPosted : 8 Apr, 2008 11:01 AMI'm in the process of getting a divorce (her choice, not mine). Now, just reading that, it doesn't sound all that good for me. Is there any way that I can get women to look past that? I mean, I know I can't convince a woman that I am not at fault...that I have to let my actions speak for me. But in these first meetings, how do I let my actions speak when all I can use are words? Any suggestions? |
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I Need Some SuggestionsPosted : 11 Apr, 2008 10:59 PMFirst of all, stop being insecure about what women will think of you just because of a divorce, whatever the reason. If the women you are meeting are jumping to conclusions about it before they get to know you, then I say you are meeting the wrong women. |
Feed_the_Poor
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I Need Some SuggestionsPosted : 13 Apr, 2008 10:04 AMI would avoid talking about your past marriage unless asked specific questions, then answer them honestly. |
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I Need Some SuggestionsPosted : 29 Apr, 2008 02:02 PMIf you want to have a chance of a good relationship, even just friends, I'd strongly urge you to wait until it's a thing of the PAST, not "going through" a divorce. |
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I Need Some SuggestionsPosted : 27 May, 2008 01:00 AMMy ex husband left me, so I know what you're talking about. You want everyone to know it wasn't your choice and that you weren't at fault. Not that you're perfect, but that you did everything you could to keep her from leaving the marriage. You want everyone to know that you would have fought for your marriage with every ounce of strength in you. But, like you said in your post, your actions speak louder than words. A woman will have to get to know you. It'll take a while, but that's ok. You'll find love again. I know I will, too. |
Phoenyx
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I Need Some SuggestionsPosted : 6 Apr, 2009 01:36 PMI don't think a Christian woman can, if she believes in holding to one's vows, and that a wife and husband are of one flesh. |