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kidvid711

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Posted : 21 Aug, 2008 10:10 PM

1. Do you suspect something from a Guy?

2. Do you believe "Love is a emotion?

3. Would you let money/ other problems interfere with your love life?

4. Do you ask guys out?

5. Do you worry what guys think?

6. How really important a guy in your life is?

7. What can cause the relationship to break?

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Posted : 23 Aug, 2008 08:46 PM

1. Do you suspect something from a Guy?

2. Do you believe "Love is a emotion?

3. Would you let money/ other problems interfere with your love life?

4. Do you ask guys out?

5. Do you worry what guys think?

6. How really important a guy in your life is?

7. What can cause the relationship to break?



1."Suspect"? or "Expect"? I will answer expect: Yes, to be honored as a "Christian woman"; To be valued far above rubies; to be love; to be understood; to be provided for; and to be protected. I believe these are Biblical instructions regarding what a role and call of a man towards his helpmate found from Genesis through the Revelation.



2. No, I believe "Love" is a decision; a prayer request to be able to supernaturally do it; a verb or action word; a physical need for survival as science has been able to prove; and a challenge to our faith when it is lacking.



3. Potentially while courting a lack of $$$ might alter the process for the suiter (He might feel bad) but I enjoy simple fun more than the extravagant.



No, if married you do not deprive your spouse from the affection due them, least they are lead into temptation.



4. No, never. Which is probably why....but I don't want a man to believe I am forward --easy.



5. I think about what a guy might think of me but not to the point of worry.



6. I truly enjoy men in general for their perspective is different than mine as a woman. They can see things quite clearly and brutally at times ( good in a friend or brother!).



I deeply miss the beauty of a maritial relationship.



7. Dating or courting: All kinds of things=GOD's will:applause:

Marriage: Infidelity and an unbeliever leaving.



I realize I could name myself the middleagekid.:ROFL:



:prayingf:My answers help somebody?



:peace:

Susan

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kidvid711

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2008 06:51 AM

Yep, it helps. but this only proves that i am not ready.



Thanks Susan.

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SusieQ8

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2008 07:17 AM

I am sorry if my answer made you feel like it proved you aren't ready? Perhaps, we ladies can help with some guidance.



If it is relational help anything by Gary Smalley and John Trent is great!



There are some "Promise Keeper" mens materials that are extremely short and very helpful?



Financial materials, advice and tools by Larry Burkett of Money Matters?



Career planning: you might find help at the local unemployment office or online to project were the job markets are going and get there!



And break-ups----> GOD's will may hurt but be better in the long run.

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2008 06:26 PM

1l) Do you suspect anything from a guy...Only if he keeps trying to talk to me off the site before I feel comfortable with him... (expect) I expect a guy to take the time to get to know me, really listen to me, and share with me.



2.) Do you believe love is an emotion...Simply put: yes...



3.) Would you let money problems interfere with your love life? Only if he was trying to scam me...Otherwise, money problems would be faced together along with the solution

and God's total input.



4.) Do you ask guys out? No. If a guy doesn't contact me first, it is highly unusual for me to be assertive. Look at my age. I am old school and really DO like to be pursued.



5.) Do you worry what guys think? Of course. I'm a woman.



6.) How really important is a guy in your life? I feel that I'm still not old enough to put out to pasture. The right one, important.



7.) What can cause the relationship to break? Becoming so absorbed in yourself that you forget the other person and the God that gave them to you.



Phew...! This was hard! Robin:goofball:

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kidvid711

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2008 08:56 PM

1. Do you expect anything from a Girl? No, as long as she doesn't cheat.



2. Do you believe "Love is a emotion? No. Decision



3. Would you let money/ other problems interfere with your love life? Yes, depends if there would be a argument. My parents conclude there relationship cause of that.



4. Do you ask girls out? No, because I don't believe I can support them.



5. Do you worry what girls think? No, but the flirting/signals drives me nuts. I still don't understand and don't even bother.



6. How really important a guy in your life is? Important enough to follow God's will.



7. What can cause the relationship to break? Cheating, or non-christian.

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kidvid711

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Posted : 25 Aug, 2008 05:02 PM

ha for #6 I meant to change the word "Guy" to a girl :-D

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Posted : 5 Apr, 2009 08:11 PM

1. Do you suspect something from a Guy?

Like what?

2. Do you believe "Love is a emotion?

No.

3. Would you let money/ other problems interfere with your love life?

Define other problems.

4. Do you ask guys out?

I've only been asked out once for a date. I have never been asked BY THE GUY to be a girlfriend. Either someone else asked for him or it was unspoken.

5. Do you worry what guys think?

Sure, sometimes.

6. How really important a guy in your life is?

Need an example.

7. What can cause the relationship to break?

Many things.

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