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hubbarddebra99

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Scam Alert
Posted : 21 Jan, 2016 02:01 PM

I'm in a very nice relationship with someone as "old school" as I am. I susjested old fashion LETTERS, and he went for it!

So... for older members, (we are over 50) that may be a good thing!

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Dress code
Posted : 21 Jan, 2016 01:52 PM

be very careful.

you may like him, but a man who controls your dress, will also try to control other things about you; and yes, it does matter.

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Elf on the Shelf
Posted : 5 Jan, 2016 10:14 AM

Excellent post, God's Jude!

But what is Elf on the Shelf?

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Are there women who assume there is never a good reason to withhold
Posted : 15 Dec, 2015 03:55 PM

actually, I go on this site for fun, and to talk in the chat forum.

low and behold, a really really nice guy contacted me.

we've been talking for months now and I really like him.

we exchanged addresses, and I hope we soon exchange phone #, and can arrange to meet soon!

But I Came Here With No Expectations!!!!!!!!!!

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check this!
Posted : 20 Oct, 2015 12:24 PM

Okay, here is an awkward situation that can go into this topic.



Was working at the mall in my twenties. Was asked out by a seemingly nice man, who worked at the music store. We had a perfectly nice, ordinary, lunch date. It was short because, we both had to get back to work.

Next day, -- He comes up to me, and very harshly starts telling me what he perceives as my faults!, ending with a statement that he could tell I HATED men, "I don't" and had been hurt, "who hasn't" and was bitter! He wanted no part of it!



Naturally, I was stunned.



I didn't see him anywhere for about two weeks, when one Saturday my boss called me over to meet the new weekend supervisor; HIM!

Not only that, he was holding a small child's hand, with his arm around his very pregnant! "I assume" wife!

I managed a weak smile, a polite, "we've met" and fled!!!!!

Later, I told my boss all about it, and asked Never to work with this man. Luckily, my boss was a good friend as well as a great boss, and I didn't! "ALSO, he got fired, two weeks later, KARMA!!!!!!!

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check this!
Posted : 15 Oct, 2015 01:30 PM

worked when in 20's with a one-word answer shy guy.

now, he's a local rock-star, with recording contract!

just goes to show ya........

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check this!
Posted : 13 Oct, 2015 12:14 PM

Let's bring the funny a little bit!



What's the worse date you have ever been on that you can laugh about now!

See Ask a Girl for more details!

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Advise Please
Posted : 13 Oct, 2015 12:09 PM

Thank you All!

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check this!
Posted : 13 Oct, 2015 12:02 PM

lets bring the funny a little bit:



What is the worse date you have ever been on, that you can laugh about now!

The worse date I actually went on was with a guy I worked with that I turned out to have NOTHING in common with.

I didn't like the movie he picked; he didn't like the restaurant I picked. I tried to tell him about my church, but he said he "didn't believe in all that God !#@%~!" TURN OFF!

Of coarse, when he met my parents, they love him, "father wasn't Christian at time" and I have to hear about "that nice boy" for a month!



worse date I avoided, was when I was first separated from my ex, a co-worker asked me out. "I should avoid co-workers!" I didn't really like him, but did not want to hurt his feelings, so I said "maybe."

He showed up at my house with his ENTIRE family!! Ma, Pa, lil' sis, Granny, AND the dog!!!

Luckily, I was at a school function with my daughter. I found out about it Monday at work!

"Dodged a bullet there!"

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prayers please
Posted : 7 Oct, 2015 01:43 PM

I REALLY like a guy here.

However, I must tell him some thing sensitive that I found out.

I honestly didn't even know this my self.

He may not want any thing to do with me after I tell him, but as a Christian I must.

So I will tell him all details in private postal mail. I hope he will a least still want to be friends.

I have been separated from me husband since 1996. We have NOT been together as husband and wife since 1996. My husband has bi-polar-schizophrenia. I have not seen him since 2006;he did not know who I was and was afraid of me when last I saw him. I am now not even sure where he lives now.

When we separated, my husband was getting a disability. The Social Security people told me, we could live apart, but must stay married for me to get my share of my husband's disability.

The is what I raised my daughter on!

When I checked on the internet, an on-line lawyer said I was already divorced, by virtue of the fact we have NOT lived as husband and wife since 1996.

I recently was very upset to find, that is not the case.

My money is limited, but I am going to file, as soon as I can.

Please pray for me, AND DO NOT JUDGE ME HARSHLY I didn't know!

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