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1jon310

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Looking for a "Gentleman"?
Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 07:44 PM

Hello Ladies

After reading many profiles and several forum posts, I decided to research what a "Gentleman" was. As it turns out there is no standard as to what character traits a man would posses to be labeled a "Gentleman". The only commonality is that he be respectful of women. But I have talked with enough women over the years to know that there is not a standard as to what a woman considers being respectful.



So Ladies I pose this to you. Make a simple list of the qualities of a "Gentleman" and what you consider is respectful behavior toward you.



Thank You for clueing us in. r

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teach_ib

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 08:50 PM

Honest

Courteous

Respectful in actions and attitude

Considerate

Helpful

Caring

Friendly

Leads without dominating

Inclusive

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Hisjoymypeace

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 09:55 PM

Faithful



Dependable



Committed



Patient



Slow-to-Anger



Humble



Kind



Thoughtful



Protector



Wow......I could have listed more but I didn't want to get carried away(smile)lol!!

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 12:20 AM

My definition of a "gentleman" would be a Christian male - one possessing Christ-like character, or at least striving to be more like Him each day. I wont bore you with a list, as I am positive that you know what I mean.

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anyann

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 01:01 AM

one who is showing and taking genuine interest in her not just from his own interest but from God's perspective and ultimate goodness..

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anyann

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 01:30 AM

sure it's alike regarding "genlewoman' :)

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anyann

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 01:36 AM

..and her respectful behaviour toward a man.

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anyann

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 03:45 AM

ability to take responsibility (in larger sense)

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jollybee

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 05:35 AM

Responsible with everything he did

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Lukia^

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2013 03:44 AM

One who loves their woman just as Christ loved the church.

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2013 04:48 PM

You know I think this is a great question because in college I had many �little� boys (20 or so open a door for me) and actually ask if it�s ok. I said I am not confused about my gender and thank you! Women�s lib has done sooo much harm to women that we don�t even see it. Now don�t get me wrong if I am doing a man�s job as a man I want to be paid the same as a man, but if I have a choice between a fireman who can carry me down the steps as a posed to a woman who drags me down the steps (because she can�t lift me) from a burning building I want the man� she should have a desk job� my opinion as a woman� woman�s lib has confused things in America. If I am on a date I will walk up to the door and wait on the man if he doesn�t open it I will never go out with him again. But then you do have the woman that will yell at a man and say I can get my own door. I FEEL BAD FOR MEN!!!!!

I suppose it is individual and probably the smartest thing to do before a date is actually on purpose have a talk about what a woman�s expectations are. I think that stinks but true�.

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