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Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ?
Posted : 14 Nov, 2017 09:45 AM

Will you go for an international person who has good education, similar likes and is doing something in life or choose someone on basis of ethnicity/skin color/race ?

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Does skin color / ethinicty / race really matter here on cdff ?
Posted : 30 Nov, 2017 01:41 AM

You generalize americans too much. There are plenty that prefer strictly their own "kind" but they tend to have been socially bullied out of being able to actually say it publically. For many uttering the "racist blasphemy" of wanting to exclusively date your own "race" is social suicide. Also keep in mind the ones that are really strict about this would try to avoid social contact with men of other races in the first place. The difference is in europe this is less taboo (partially because frenchmen and englismen for example are generally kinda racist towards each other in a pattern common accross european countries) so people are more open about it. Also.... this is true for ALL people globally, black mothers dont want their sons to marry white woman and chinese mothers dont want their sons to marry black woman etc.

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Posted : 3 Dec, 2017 03:29 PM

Im trusting God for the one he has for me I dont care about his Skin/Ethnicity/Race the only problem i have with International is Long Distance is very hard its not for everyone that is why it would be hard for me to date outside USA otherwise it has nothing to do with the rest as Long as he Loves God more than me and Leads his Family Spiritually etc.......International is just hard to be so far apart for me

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Posted : 19 Dec, 2017 02:22 AM

Roseydove that's my approach too, I wouldn't discount someone based on skin colour.

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2017 05:40 PM

agrees with roseydove, international dating can be difficult and should not be forced upon anyone in the name of "being Christian"

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Posted : 22 Jan, 2018 07:36 AM

Savedbygrace I don't think that anyone is trying to force anything on anyone.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2018 12:54 AM

Personally, I believe in diversifying of genetic codes. I wouldn't mind people from other races. However, for those who prefer people of a particular race, they should indicate it on their profiles. I respect tastes and preferences.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2018 01:31 PM

Yeah, everyone's got their preferences. I generally prefer Asian and Latin-American, but my door's not locked to others. I saw a black woman the other day that I almost got into an accident over.

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2018 01:35 PM

Hey Rambo, it's true that here in the States you get folks who only want to date their own people of their own ethnicity. Sometimes that's because of bigotry, and sometimes it's just the preference. I think though that as we distance ourselves further and further from the slave era, the less and less interracial marriages are an issue. Nor should they be. But, I agree with your point: If a person wants to only marry within their own race, they ought not be condemned.

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Posted : 1 Apr, 2018 06:26 AM

This is how racial preference works when it comes to dating. This is a video from Guardian (USA) explains why stereotypes overrides actual personalities



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flXIdlRwEXc

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