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Rabbit32 View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 13 Apr, 2010 09:31 PM ...soulmates, or how many women believe God has someone made specifically for you. I would appecite ya'lls views on this :) Post Reply
View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 14 Apr, 2010 08:16 PM I agree with Thunder. And babygirl. I don't think each person has ONE person (and one only) that is their "perfect" mate. If we follow God's leading and search His will for us, we can find someone who compliments us and can help us be the person God wants us to be. Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 14 Apr, 2010 09:00 PM I once thought soulmates was the real deal in my youth, but as I've gotten older I don't see it as God's Word about relationships. I do however, believe that through God's design and if it is His purpose for me, that there's going to be someone who is not "perfect", but will be the perfect man for me, and I will be suitable and perfect for the man. I realize that God might not have in mind for me to be with anyone. That could be. It's not what I want, but that's also a possibility. Anyway, I circled the block (:glow:) but yes, I do believe "God has someone made specifically for you". ~GraceMae Post Reply
View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 14 Apr, 2010 09:35 PM i dont believe in it. what is the ratio of males to females i wonder....i'm pretty sure it's not 1-1. if they existed then that would mean that some people were born to be alone. *shurgs* nyanda:purpleangel: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 12:52 AM If we're talking soulmates in the sense that there's one perfect person out there for us, we're tasked with finding and marrying them, and if we mess it up, then we will just be unsatisfied forever, then I don't believe in that. However, I don't believe that God has multiple options for us that he'd be happy with no matter who we choose. I believe God brings us into marriage with the person he ordains. However, sometimes he ordains multiple marriages in a person's life. A mistake made early in life can be redeemed, and just because a spouse dies doesn't mean you are destined to be alone the rest of your life. Post Reply
InHisHonor View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 01:10 AM Tulip "However, sometimes he ordains multiple marriages in a person's life." Are you saying that God ordains us to break a covenant with a spouse? Can you clear that up for me please? Post Reply
View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 04:58 AM I think I know what Tulip is trying to say. I think he is saying that he doesn't believe that we have just one 'soulmate' because if that is true, then when we make mistakes of our youth or a spouse dies, that's it. Am I close Tulip? I'll let you answer. I agree with Thunder to an extent. I had made what I believed and what seemed a wise and intelligent choice in a spouse when I dated my only serious bf since my divorce. We started talking forever and God said, 'No, he's not the one'. Now, I could have married him anyway. God leaves choice up to us, but I would have also had to deal with the consequences. My steps are ordered and if I follow His leading, He will orchestrate our meeting and ordain our union. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 09:13 AM babygirl pretty much got it. Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 11:31 AM I am in doubt. Call me romantic but I really would love the idea that my soulmate is out there somewhere. I like even more the idea that God has set that person apart for me. But I still have a question. Why has this person not been put on my path? Like I said. I am really in doubt. Post Reply
View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 11:59 AM Sos, From my experience, when we yield areas of our lives (the goal is to yield it all) we must wait on God to process us and prepare us to receive it. It's the same as the other areas of our life where we must wait on our season and God's timing. It is not always easy to do. If I can keep it real, our body wants what we can righteously have only while married, and at least for me, it's a challenge to keep my thoughts pure. But I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. :peace: But jumping the gun is what gets us into messes we end up crying out to God to save us from. In the meantime, we should let God heal us, read our Word so it can transform our minds and grow our fruit of the Spirit, so we are ready and fit for the spouse we desire. Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	I wonder how many women believe in.... Posted : 15 Apr, 2010 01:56 PM Thanks babygirl. I will think about what you said. Post Reply

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