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SilverFire

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Posted : 7 Oct, 2010 03:13 PM

I've searched for something on this topic and nothing came up, so here we go...



Of the two genders, women are probably more adept at sending signals than men, but how good are they at receiving signals sent by men? I mean this in the usual manner -- indirect expressions of interest that don't rise to the level of flirting (for example: stating on a forum that you're into the same things she is on a thread where she's posted); I'm assuming multiple instances of the same kind of behavior.

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 05:28 AM

Yeah, When Harry Met Sally and all that... But that applies to everybody except me. I can do platonic well.

:ROFL:

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Tulip89

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 08:26 AM

Maybe you can. That doesn't mean THEY can!

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 10:37 AM

OK CAN WE JUST LET THE CAT OUT OF THE BAG ALREADY?

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paschen81

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 12:47 PM

Wait...who has a cat in a bag?!

Animal abuse! I'm calling PETA!

Haha just kidding

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 12:55 PM

Oh almost forgot...when Harry met Sally...well that is something called fiction lol.



Me...I'm terrible at seeing signals that a guy is interested in more than friendship until it's obvious to everyone except me...then I may realize but even then there is a possibility I will think they are just humoring me.

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 03:40 PM

This is an interesting topic. There have been times when someone has written some small thing in a post and I have wanted to send them a person message to get more information. I do it with the ladies because It's no big deal but I do not do it with guys because I do not want them to get the wrong impression...

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 03:46 PM

Hmmm... I send messages on here all the time asking people questions. I don't think anyone gets the wrong impression. But then maybe they wouldn't let me know if they did.

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Posted : 8 Oct, 2010 07:59 PM

I do not read them well...*online-only*....not sure why that is..I am not even sure I like that online.

I like everything straight up, and in person I know right away.

My question would be what if you keep missing it online ? Ouch!

Someone is going to have to raise the flag a bit more.

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Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 02:30 AM

Well, if the lady keeps missing the signals, then the guy needs to do the assertive, non-passive guy thing and be straightforward and make his intentions known.

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Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 07:30 AM

:applause:

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