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algomaboy View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 22 Sep, 2011 12:47 PM ladies tell us about the guys who introduce themselves to you. what is it that you like that will not be forgotten? What is the best intorduction of a guy you met? I am looking for tips....... Post Reply
View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 22 Sep, 2011 08:30 PM I'll tell you one thing that has stuck with me for 20+ years. When I met a man that I was later to be engaged to (it didn't stick) as someone introduced us at a backyard party he smiled at me and took my hand like he was going to shake it, and instead he just held it. Didn't squeeze or anything, just looked at me, holding my hand (he had turned it so the back was facing up) and we said Hi and then he let it go. Really, really caught my attention. A couple of years ago when I met a man for the first time that I had met over the internet, he smiled at me, held out one arm, and came towards me to meet me and gave me a gentle one-armed hug around the shoulders. That, also, caught my attention. Post Reply
View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 23 Sep, 2011 09:39 AM My tip: post a picture on your profile. Don't use I phrases too much. Be yourself:) Post Reply
algomaboy View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 23 Sep, 2011 01:18 PM car my pics are hidden. I do have them. thanks for the advice. Post Reply
View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 23 Sep, 2011 03:24 PM I met a very charming man, not online though. He reached for my hand, then kissed it and said "of all the places in the world you walked into, it was here where I am. :laugh: I love a Romantic. lol Post Reply
harmonysong View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 24 Sep, 2011 01:10 PM One time i meet this guy named cody. It was my freshmen year at OU and I did not really know anyone yet. I went to the cafe with a couple of girls from my floor and their friends. We went to the cafe together and when we got there we broke off to find food. When i had found what i wanted, i tried to locate the rest of the pack. Soon i was flagged down by the two girl from my floor. The tables were in long row but that did not matter...as i was walking to the table - Cody (who has not even starting eating yet) gets up, walks all the way around the table, pulls out my chair/pushes me in...then goes back to his seat and begins to eat. It was a moment, i will never forget. His charm and kindness ...he is a true gentlemen. :glow: Post Reply
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 24 Sep, 2011 08:03 PM Cheesy pick up lines are a total turn off to me. I'd much prefer a gentleman simply come up to me, introduce himself and say something like, "Hey, I saw you across the room and thought you were pretty. I'd like to get to know you. Wanna chat?" I mean, let's be honest here fellas...the first thing you notice about a woman is her looks. How can you not if you know absolutely NOTHING else about her? So be a little different from other guys and just admit it. Then move on...strike up a conversation, crack a joke...say something interesting about yourself. Make me laugh...anything but a totally classless and cheesy line you've used on every girl since the seventh grade. Good Luck :) Post Reply
View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 25 Sep, 2011 05:47 PM You're probably the only woman on the planet who thinks that. Unfortunatly. Everytime I hear some one complain about how guys care about looks I can just imagine an encounter going something like this: Woman: Are you only interested in getting to know me because you think I look good? Man: What? How could you think that? I think you look disgusting, but I'm not one of those guys who only cares about looks. Let's talk about your crazy cats. Post Reply
MyCrownIsGod View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 26 Sep, 2011 02:14 PM LOL...yeah, it probably would go like that for most guys, because most women aren't like me. I appreciate honesty. I wish guys would realize honesty and being a gentleman will get you farther with a woman than a cheesy line. Cause the thing is, unless you can come up with a REALLY funny, extremely ORIGINAL pick up line, that actually isn't OFFENSIVE to women, we've probably heard it all before and you just come off looking like a total player, which I guess works for some girls, so guys keep doing it...but I think the majority of women probably feel the same way I do about it. Post Reply
cowgirl1984 View Profile History	women what do you like guys intro Posted : 2 Oct, 2011 12:27 AM :ROFL: I agree with MyCrownIsGod on the pickup lines comment. So funny, and so true! To me, the big thing is starting a conversation. Really open, general questions (i.e. "how are you") are hard to really answer in a meaningful way when you have never talked to someone before. Something more specific is likely to get a better response. Pick one thing out of her profile that you either have in common with her or that you are interested in knowing more about and use that to try to start a conversation. For example, if you both are into photography, ask her if she prefers black & white or color photography, or if she prefers portraits or scenery, etc. Or ask her who/what her inspiration is. Also, if you answer your own question, that helps. Or at least in my opinion it does. You don't want to be super lengthy or anything like that in the first message, but something with substance that can get a conversation going is the best way to do it. Or if you can't find something you have in common, but you want to know more about her, take something from her profile that you think could be interesting and ask her about it. For example, if she likes underwater basket weaving, and you don't know much about it, ask her what it is and how she got into it. So basically: 1) SPECIFIC!!! 2) CONVERSATION STARTER 3) Not too lengthy Hope that helps! Post Reply