Author	Thread: Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication
Admin	Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication Posted : 2 Dec, 2019 06:59 AM Okay, assume that I’ve narrowed it down to a lady whom I really see as beautiful (God was so good to us with the gift of a woman) both inside and out. Based on your input I’m going to send a first mail message. I don’t want to blow it. This woman is fine, the whole package! So I’ll be a stranger sending that first message. Hoping to keep her attention and hopefully msg back and forth awhile……..what subjects/questions would you suggest? And, what would you not like to see, like “hi baby”, or ask about her children or their divorce? Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication Posted : 3 Dec, 2019 02:44 AM I think a first message should be brief but well thought out, mentioning something of interest you saw in their profile is always a good idea. Far too many people send messages to people without taking the time to read their profile & see if they have anything in common, referencing something you saw shows you've at least read it and have taken some kind of interest all the best... Post Reply
Fireprooof^ View Profile History	Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication Posted : 3 Dec, 2019 11:39 PM BE YOURSELF Post Reply
Brandyccc View Profile History	Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication Posted : 4 Dec, 2019 08:21 AM For me, even if the guy says ''good morning, how are you'', that opens the door because, to me it's saying "I'm interested in talking, are you"? So even something light can open that door..It doesn't have to be complicated with the first hello. Post Reply
slightlybrokenwing72 View Profile History	Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication Posted : 4 Dec, 2019 02:23 PM Single line messages that only comment on my appearance... umm... idk even how to respond to that... did you read my profile? know anything about me? did you really only write cos of my picture? its... ugh... i got two messages from people who read the profile... that gives me a sense that they wrote because of *me* ... now i can read theirs and consider. one guy didn't reference the profile, but wrote something to the effect of that he prayed that my day was going well. he was from africa, so not much chance to be able to meet in person. but i reponded to feeling cared for, so we talked back and forth a while. it was nice and i'm glad to have interacted with him :) Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Good questions or subjects appropriate first communication Posted : 6 Dec, 2019 01:10 PM I don't like a wink. Shows you don't know what to say or you don't even fit in my age range for to send a message! Waste of time! I like a witty man who's confident and a bit romantic, yes in first message. Post Reply