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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 9 Oct, 2007 10:28 AMMost of the men that ask me out are shorter then me. I work-out 3 days a week because I am into healthy living. The opporsite will ask me out. Men old enough to be my grandfather will ask me out! I am nice to them, but I come home and I cry, because I think something is wrong with me. I have felt like a object for so many years, and I can feel it now at 44. They are not asking, because they think I am a women of God! They are think the opporsite! God keep me strong. |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 11 Oct, 2007 10:13 AMI have been in your shoes. I have some guys who are interested who are either way too old for me or way too short. I don't know why it is this way but I pray daily that the right guy will come along, in God's timing. |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 17 Oct, 2007 06:56 PMDon't always put the shorter guy down I know of a number of couples that he is shorter then she is and very happy the Lord put them together. Who know that guy you think is to short for you may be the one the Lord wants you to be with. Keep this in mind we can not put God in a box. |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 9 Nov, 2007 11:31 PMthere is a saying "Opposites Attract". |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 23 Nov, 2007 07:49 PMState on your profiles here and elsewhere what type of man you are looking for. Be honest and straight forward. Tell that type of man what you are looking for early on so as not to waste each other's time. One way you could do that is to ask the man what qualities he is looking for in a wife. Then if he is smart at all, he'll ask you what you are looking for. Then you can describe the type of man you are looking for and he'll see that he isn't it. Then you'll be done with him without offending him because he asked you the question. If he doesn't ask you after you ask him, then you can just offer your answer to him and he should still get the hint. |
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Angellove
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 19 Dec, 2007 09:59 AMHey I came across chatforum and i want to say something . whats wrong with guys too old asking you out? I means guys who are 60 might ask a girl who is 20 . People can ask anything they want to . besides you are good looking thats why mens ask you out . Infact there are people who have never been asked out . have confidence in yourself and if you donot like the guy then tell him that "he is good person " but sorry i got a boyfriend or something so that he will not be hurt . About the shorter guys its the heart that counts not the looks but if you donot like short guys then thats your choice tell him that you have a man . I am not telling you to lie but i donot feel ok about hurting others feelings. Sometimes for the good we may lie:) Its not right but sometimes truth hurts.Just take care of yourself and your body , live with God and his words and all the rest will be on Gods hands. |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 20 Dec, 2007 09:56 AMFirst, I need to explain what you're about to read. See, on the internet there's no body language, inflection, or chance to pat someone's hand reassuringly in comfort, letting them know you still have a Christ-like love for them. With that said, I wanted to weigh in, but I don't want this interpreted as angry or condemning. |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 22 Dec, 2007 09:49 PMAs long as we are on this topic... |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 1 Jan, 2008 07:23 AMHi Detroit Lady! |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 6 Jan, 2008 10:59 PMThis is really hard because I feel that I am not a match for a lot of guys that are my age (46) because I look significantly younger than most people my age. Still, its a challenge for me to be open to a 40 year old, even though I am probably a better match overall for someone that young. I am open to older, but if they look like my dad it is a turn off, so that narrows the older guys down a bit |
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Why do "SOME" men ask us out, when we are "NO MATCH!"Posted : 12 Jan, 2008 09:40 AMNot only that, but the shorter guy may have the biggest, most giving heart of any guy you have met. don't judge by the cover. look at what is on the inside. |
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