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genique
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I had hysterectomy, afraid i' d be rejected because of that.Posted : 30 Jun, 2018 01:23 AMI understand men likely prefer women with complete anatomy and who will be able to give them a child. This holds me back from meeting or dating, i tend to assume its not going anywhere or i will just be waiting their time. |
Jayzeee
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I had hysterectomy, afraid i' d be rejected because of that.Posted : 30 Jun, 2018 06:39 AMI think that if a man's primary aim is to have children he's not going to be looking for a woman in her 40s. He would most likely be seeking someone younger as we know female fertility declines after 35. I don't see why anyone would be rejected for having a hysterectomy or any other medical procedure for that matter. I think your medical history is a private matter and I don't think you need to volunteer that information to anyone unless you choose to. There are a lot of fabulous 40 plus woman out there who have had their families and have a lot to offer to their future spouse... |
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Jayzeee
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I had hysterectomy, afraid i' d be rejected because of that.Posted : 30 Jun, 2018 10:07 AMLike wise there are plenty men 40s and above who have no desire to return to nappies and night feeds... :-) |
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Chioniso
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I had hysterectomy, afraid i' d be rejected because of that.Posted : 4 Jul, 2018 06:39 AMI think the first thing is to love yourself as you are. Always know that God loves you more. Once you are in a relationship be open at the beginning because thats the foundation of your relationship. Dont lie because you will be hurt later. Get attached to your partner once he has learnt and accepted that truth about you. Yes there are old mature men who are not looking forward to have children. You will be happy my sister. Just be faithful in all your ways. God is so faithful with his word. |
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I had hysterectomy, afraid i' d be rejected because of that.Posted : 14 Jul, 2018 02:19 AMThere are men (especially those who've had previous relationships) who may not want more kids. Also there are men who are infertile themselves. Sure, not being able to have kids may shrink the dasting pool for you, but probably not by as much as you think. |
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I had hysterectomy, afraid i' d be rejected because of that.Posted : 7 Aug, 2018 05:23 PMI would not care if I met someone that could not have kids. |
