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I was falsely accused by someone on here of stalking and harassment
Posted : 4 Dec, 2019 04:21 PM

Without mentioning any names, here's the whole story and I'll try not to miss any details. You can come up with your own conclusions. There was a person I messaged on here who's name looked familiar. I looked them up on YouTube and found that they had a channel. I watched a few of their videos, and I thought they seemed nice, so I left a comment and messaged them on here saying "You are cute" and a simple "hi". I asked them a few questions, but I never got any reply, so I started thinking maybe this person made a fake account. So I went to their YouTube again and found they had a Twitter, and two Facebook's (one was a page, like big celebrities have). I thought I'd go to Twitter first and send the person a dm asking them if they had an account on here. Still no answer (also the person had it set so anyone could send them dm's regardless of whether they followed them or not). Anyways, I saw on my Twitter that they tweeted something that looked like it was taken from this site, so I assumed it was the real them. So I sent a few questions like "What's your favorite color?" and "Do you have any pets?" , those kind of questions. I still got no reply, so I thought "Maybe this person is scared that I'm not a christian." so I sent a few messages to them here quoting scriptures from the Bible and I asked a couple of times if we could be friends (I also asked them a few times if they would pray for me, because I thought they were christian). I still got no replies. I went to my Twitter and saw that they tweeted something about someone sending a set amount of "flirtatious" messages to them and went to follow them on their social medias. I had a feeling it was aimed at me, so I asked, but I still got no reply. Actually, now that I think about it this happened twice. The first time I don't believe I asked about, but the second one made me start to ask questions. I tried to explain what happened to them on here. I got no replies. But I went to Twitter and saw that they accused of being a stalker. This of course made me a little angry, so I explained in more detail as I possibly could on here and asked if we could just start over and be friends. Blocked. Got no replies, accused of being too flirtatious when I wasn't, and I get falsely accused of being a stalker. Now, I did unfollow them before this, but I followed back so I could explain things in more detail. I got back on twitter, but this time I got on my other (which I had before all of this even happened). I was going to try to explain things a little better there, and tell them they were dead wrong about me being a stalker. But I remembered that Twitter account was actually banned for reasons that I am unaware (it happened right after I changed my Twitter handle). So I thought I'd go to the Facebook page. I did so and hoped that they would understand. Nope. They still accused me of being a stalker. So I asked God for help, and December 1st 2019 God took all doubt out of me. Before that I did report those tweets, because it's against the law to accuse someone of being a stalker when they are not. Anyways, after December 1st I shared my story with them on their Facebook page and apologized and asked them to pray that God will continue taking all of this doubt away from me and for Him to give me patience. Curious, I wanted to see if they forgave me or not. I actually went to my other account on twitter and saw that they tweeted something about others trying to being down their faith (which I never did), and they threatened to report the "stalker" to the authorities for harassment. Answer these questions for me. Is it considered stalking if I found the person's other social medias on YouTube where anyone could go and follow them? Is it considered flirtatious to ask someone to pray for you, if they would like to be friends, or just sending them quotes, verses, and scriptures from the Bible? Is it considered harassment when the other person didn't even come to me and ask me privately to stop, as opposed to dropping subtle hints that I was unclear was directed at me or not? No, to me, this is nothing but a liar who only wants to play victim something that never happened just so they can get sympathy from others. And correct me if I'm wrong, but that is a child of God shouldn't do. If this person wants to make up a fake story on me and report it to the police, then fine, they can be my guest. But in the end I know I did nothing wrong and I never meant to do anything that seemed wrong, and God knows I didn't do anything wrong. I only pray that the truth ends up coming out into the open and that this person gets knocked off their high horse and learn their lesson before it's too late. So whether you want to believe me or whether you don't I know what was said, God knows the truth, and if I have to be taken to jail because of the truth then so be it. Thank you for reading if you did, and just pray for this whole situation to go away, because, yes, it does make me angry, and it does make me think that others, no matter if they're christians or not, sees me the same way. I hope you all have a nice day and God bless you.

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I was falsely accused by someone on here of stalking and harassment
Posted : 25 May, 2020 09:49 AM

I've already grown up. I don't care what any of you think of me. I know exactly where I stand with God. I know I'm saved and I know that Jesus is using this desire for a wife to bring me closer to Him. I don't know 100% what His will is for me, but if marriage is part of His plan for my life then I'm going to ask for it, and even if it isn't I'm going to ask for it. You might tell me that praying this much for a wife is a distraction, but it's not. I've never felt closer to the Lord than I do right now. He has forgiven me, and that's something that all of us need to be practising. I've spoken my peace, I've admitted to my mistakes, but if someone who claims to be a christian can't find it in their heart to forgive me then how can you call yourself a christian? If you don't love neighbor then you don't love God. And don't think this comment is just about me. I know a lot of you want to think that I'm the bad guy, but everyone of us should forgive those that have wronged us. I know it's hard, but it's what should do. If some of you want to go on hating then I can't stop you. I can pray for you, but I can't stop you. But I know I'll be hated for His namesake, because they first hated Him, but I'm willing to take it as long as He is by my side, I'm not afraid of this world may do to me. I just pray that the love of Jesus will fill up your hearts before it's too late. Praise be to Jesus. Amen.

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I was falsely accused by someone on here of stalking and harassment
Posted : 25 May, 2020 11:46 AM

If you think you're the victim here you've definitely got a lot of growing up to do. You didn't follow the cues and instead tried to force the issue. This is not the way a man behaves, I've nothing more to say because you clearly don't listen...:-)

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I was falsely accused by someone on here of stalking and harassment
Posted : 25 May, 2020 03:01 PM

You can say whatever you want, but I and God knows what I did and didn't do. I didn't try to force anything. I just made a stupid mistake. If being a man means not making mistakes then there are no real men in this world. We all make mistakes. If you want a man (or woman) that doesn't make any and hasn't done anything wrong or sinful then you're not going to find it. The only that ever walked without sin, without wrong, who made no mistake is Jesus. We should all try to be more like Him every day. And yes, it does feel like I'm the victim here, because it seems like some of you want to put all the fault onto me just because I'm the man, and you take the woman's side just because she's the woman. Let me ask this to all of you, if the roles were reversed would you still think I deserve all the blame or what? And here's a question for the person I'm talking in the post. Did you accuse me of being a stalker because of what I said, or did you do it because because you thought I was ugly? Feel free to answer if you want to. I don't need to explain myself any further. I've said enough.

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