As with most modern women, HazelEyesSparkle has thrown away her best chance of marriage by waiting until the last minute to get serious about it. The biggest problem women come up against when waiting is biological. Women begin to lose their eggs some where around their 30s and by 35 most women have none left. There are exceptions to the rule but it's rare.
There are other problems, like the longer a woman stays unattached the more set in her ways she becomes. This makes it harder for her to allow a man in her life. She becomes bossy and masculine which makes her just plain disagreeable. These are but some of the things that make her hard to live with. There's at least one study that shows the more bed partners a woman has the more difficult it becomes for her to pair bond. I also think that over time dating multiple men will have a similar result.
Contrary to popular belief it's women who are to bend to the mans will and not the other way around. There is no equality on Earth between the genders and that's by God's design. Most like to ignore that God designed a family hierarchy with God above men and men above women. He equipped men to be leaders and women to be followers.
It's women's natural proclivity to follow that has been used against them by Satan. He's been whispering in their ears just like he did in the garden of Eden. He's telling them they are just as good or better than men at everything and so most have fallen into his trap which has brought about the destruction of the family hierarchy.
I actually was involved in a several month long online conversation with a Brazilian woman I met on here. She didn't appear to be a scammer as there are ways to verify if the person you're talking to is a at least the one pictured in their profile and she past. Plus she never asked for anything from me. She was working on getting her ducks in a row so she could to fly to the US on her own dime so we could meet in person.
I was very interested in her but eventually just broke off our conversations becasue I got tired of her randomly without warning leaving the conversation for minutes to sometime hours at a time. It was always some lame excuse. I tried to set up a time where we could talk uninterrupted for at least an hour. It would work for maybe a week then it would be back to the same pattern.
I honestly couldn't tell if she was talking to other potential men or she just didn't care that much about getting to know me so finally I just gave up on her.
Since you don't want to answer my question I will just give out some more information.
From around 18 to roughly their 30s, most women just want to party and have fun. But beginning in their 30s women begin realize they are going to hit the wall soon and decide to get serious about finding a husband. They all start looking for a tall, built, attractive, well spoken man who's a high earner.
The problem is most men like that are in very high demand. Ironically so were most of those women who were partying away their younger years. But now those women aren't in such high demand but believe they still deserve that "high demand guy".
That "high demand guy" is more interested in younger women, but are still be willing to have fun with an older woman but will be unlikely to take her seriously for anything else. Part of the reason for that is as women get older they tend to become more difficult to get along with. It's usually because as they get older they earn more more money, are more independent and have become more masculine, which for some odd reason they think is attractive to men. That's not to say there aren't plenty of men that would have them. It's just that these women are stuck on that "high demand guy" they can't have but stupidly reject average men.
In the event they happen to date a "high demand guy" and he rejects her. Then it's because he has a character flaw and not because she's just not that attractive to him. On the other hand if she goes out with an average guy she will typically reject him and also site a character flaw as the reason.
Here's part of the problem. Women are born physically attractive and in the modern world they rely on their beauty to attract and extract wealth from men. Many never seem to learn that you also have to be beautiful on the inside. That's mostly due to the sheer amount of attention that men give them, which in turn gives women a false sense that they are the whole package and perfect the way they are.
To God they may be but that's not real life so if your personality is lousy then it will eventually have a more profound impact, especially later in life. Most women think they are the prize and many men would agree. That is until he has to deal with that lousy personality of hers. But of course she will always claim it was him and not her and society will agree with her.
Hear this ladies. Men are very tolerant of women's flaws so if you're having problems attracting men or keeping men. IT'S NOT THEM IT'S YOU.
@HazelEyesSparkle I'm very curious what this character flaw is you mentioned. Is it one man, some men or do all the men you have talked to have this flaw? Could you please be more specific?
I know you don't like the advice I have given you in the past but again I'm going to tell it like it is.
There are likely millions of men out there that would make great husbands. But they are invisible to you because you are looking for the perfect man that quite frankly you're not going to find.
You like most modern women have set your standards so high that most men aren't even on your radar. And even when you do land a date with someone you turn him off. Why I don't know, but the problem is with you not them.
You need to be the women that men want and not what you think men want. Men are very simple. We want women that are non argumentative, very respectful and submissive. We want to take care of our wives and children, not compete with them. We want to come home to a clean house, a good meal and a respectful loving partner. We want a women that we will gladly lay down our lives for and not a woman that makes our live a living hell.
You need to look very deeply at yourself. Unfortunately you won't get good advice from most people. But I know you will likely only listen to someone who massages your ego and tell you it's not your fault. And of course that's your choice. So all I have to say to that is GOOD LUCK.
KJVBibleLady even the KJV Bible is a translation from other languages so as far as it being less corrupt is very debatable as many new translations go back to the same original texts and try to translate Gods word into modern languages. Languages naturally change over time and there's no stopping that so updating the Bible really is important.
Think about it like this. Lets say you wanted to put Bibles into the hands of people born into a country that didn't speak or read any English? Now of course you could go there and try and teach all of them English and supply them with KJV Bibles, or you could give them a Bible that was translated into their language. Which would be easier, more efficient and reach more people?
The reality is it's not the language that's corrupt, it's the people.
